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Should I tell my best friend how I feel for him? I'm afraid of the consequences upon our friendship.

Q.   hi..i'm in love with my best friend.i really want to tell him but i'm afraid it will ruin our 15 years of relationship.I have a friend who experienced this before and he told the girl but she didn't accept him.and now, their freindship is not as ...

A.   8 March 2008: I did it, I told a girl who I consider my best friend that I loved her, and although she said that she didnt feel the same way about me and broke my heart, it actually helped us become closer, I'll always say it was worth the risk, and I'd do it ... (read in full...)

How do you become happy and content without a partner and close friends in your life?

Q.   I just want to know, how do u become happy and cotnent without a partner in your life and without close friends? some times i feel very lonely and have tried to meet people but they never stay long. for the past few years i have felt like i've lost ...

A.   25 February 2008: I know what u mean :), You have gotta give people a chance, workplace's are easy to make friends, u can just ask what they are doin after, it goes on from there, as for keeping them, u should never have to try and keep a friend, if they are true ... (read in full...)

Why am I the only person left thats not met, and stayed with someone special???

Q.   I've just been rejected, and I'm trying to move on again. I've been rejected before -- in fact, my success rate is abysmal. It used to be because I was too shy to persue girls. I'm still shy now, of course, but I at least try. I've covered all the ...

A.   18 February 2008: I know what your goin through, its tough I knw, the thing that keeps me going is the fact that one day all this paina nd torture will be worth ut, keep strong buddy... (read in full...)

What can I say to him to help bring his confidence back?

Q.   This is mroe advice for my friend. I have a male friend - he's one of my best friends and I love him to pieces - not in a romantic way, but as a friend. We're really close. A while ago he told me he was in love with me, and although I adore him, ...

A.   9 January 2008: I've been on the other end of this, dont be too hard, be do come down on him, it'll do the world of good if u tell him sommat like, 'I love u to bits as a FRIEND, but I'll never see u as anything more, I'll help u as much as I can but please get ... (read in full...)

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