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My mistress says she will leave her husband in 18months, but she still puts his interests above mine, does this mean she is not genuine in her desire to leave him?

Q.   i am having an affair with a woman i met online. She is in a loveless relationship she has had for nearly 20 years. They also have 3 children who are nearly grown up. She tells me that once her youngest has graduated (about 18 months time) she will...

A.   7 November 2007: thanks to both for replies... No, they arent married, never have been. Yes, she could be playing me very easily, if i didnt worry about that then i guess i wouldnt have been posting. I've met him, he comes in, sits at the TV while she talks to me ... (read in full...)

I'm still friends with my ex, but my boyfriend is jealous, what can I do?

Q.   I am friends with my ex-fiance of 9 years and I am in a serious relationship now. But when it comes to talking or seein my ex, my boyfriend gets so furious and upset and it is costing our relationship! What should I do? ...

A.   7 November 2007: if you are serious about making this work, you need to cut ties with your ex unless there are children involved. You have moved on.... but your new guy is wondering if you really have. Give him an answer... (read in full...)

Had a fling in NYC this weekend, do you think he will call me?

Q.   Ok I know this is bad, but a cute waiter hit on me in NYC this weekend. He could not stop looking at me all through dinner, then when I asked for my check, he said he would pay for it if I stayed (a $200 tab). We went to another bar and ended up ...

A.   7 November 2007: probably not. He's probably thinking that you were treating it as a one off as you havent called him like he wanted. If he was willing to pay your dinner tab, then i would imagine if he's really interested, he would offer to pay your flight back... (read in full...)

We were best friends, but neither of us could say how we really felt, now he's found someone else, what should I doo?

Q.   i have Been hopelessly in love with my best friend for the past 3 years and im stuck. about 3 months ago i found out from a friend of his that he had felt the same about me and we were both afraid to tell eachother and he ended up dating ths girl ...

A.   7 November 2007: I would suggest getting out there and finding someone new yourself. Whether your heart is in it or not, you need to break free of the helplessness you're feeling right now. The worst that can happen is that you and him drift apart but you might actu... (read in full...)

She stares at me, does this mean she's interested?

Q.   Hi. So i've been going to a Physical Fitness Gym for sometime . I usually go with my friend to the gym and about 4 days ago he and I were both and the gym and he noticed a girl giving US a hard stare. Typically, just because its me...

A.   7 November 2007: simple really to find out... Have you tried smiling at her as she is staring? If she smiles back, then thats a green light to start up conversation.... (read in full...)

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