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Karma: people seem to get rewarded for bad behaviour, so is there any point in being a good person?

Q.   Hi, I was wondering if anyone saw anything bad happen to bad people? I see a guy who cheated in the IQ test to get a job become the manager of a company. I see a woman who cheated on her husband living happily with her husband and kid. I see dislo...

A.   6 January 2013: I feel the SAME way. I've always been a good person. The two people I was closest to died. I've always worked really hard. I got abused by my ex husband. I was teased my whole childhood. I always tell the truth, it makes people think im a liar! ... (read in full...)

How do I meet a guy for a lasting relationship?

Q.   My relationships with men have been unsteady and rocky, even though, I have tried to have a lasting one. It seems like the men I am interested in are not interested in me and leave abruptly or cause me to break up with them. I think I am fairly a...

A.   6 January 2013: I don't get it? Do you have shared interests. Go to meetup.com groups. I've never had this problem I think its the wrong type of guys.... (read in full...)

I have no motivation. How can I stop procrastinating and enjoy life?

Q.   Not sure what is wrong... I have been feeling sad, lack motivation, and interest. I just want to watch tv all day except when I have to go to work. I have tons of things I need to get done in life, but I just sit on my couch and put it off. What c...

A.   6 January 2013: Stop watching TV. I swear to god it's an addictive devil box. My whole life I was a high achiever. Rarely slept. Got so much done. Had a business and a ton of hobbies. My boyfriend introduced me to tv. I used to watch it only when really tire... (read in full...)

Is it common to stop feeling that old love and passion in long distance relationships?

Q.   Is it common in long distance relationships, where you meet your lover once in 2 or 3 months ..to stop feeling that old love and passion? or is it because i don't love him anymore :( i cannot think of anyone else as my future spouse, but i just ...

A.   6 January 2013: You deserve better & more attention. 2 years girl? Thats crazy. Move out there or get him to move to you. Its always possible. My bf left the military to be with me & moved states 3 times in a year! Him using you & ignoring you could definate... (read in full...)

Been seeing him for 3 months but he won't say whether or not it's a relationship. How do I get him to open up?

Q.   Hi cupids, advice needed. After a horrid start to last year (splitting with ex due to him cheating while I was having our baby) I met someone a few months after who's a really good guy. We've been together now 3 months, see each other 5/6 times a ...

A.   6 January 2013: You deserve better. He might be leaving it open to get with others or to have the possibility to do it in the future.... (read in full...)

What can I do about my friends rude boyfriend?

Q.   I've known my friend for years longer than his boyfriend. I can't stand my friends boyfriend because he is so rude. He always answers for my friend and butts in. My friend can answer for himself. The boyfriend also answers everything with " if you...

A.   6 January 2013: That sounds so annoying :( He's just a dick nothing you can do about it. I've learned that these people a lot of the time don't know/care about others feelings.... (read in full...)

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