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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Is it common in long distance relationships, where you meet your lover once in 2 or 3 months ..to stop feeling that old love and passion? or is it because i don't love him anymore :( i cannot think of anyone else as my future spouse, but i just don't feel interested in this whole "relationship" thing anymore and feel sorry about it. At times i feel angry when i think about my boyfriend , its as though i'm angry because he's far!which doesn't make any logical sense because otherwise he's great..we've been together for 3 yrs now and for the past two years he's been living in a different city.i feel good when he calls me or says he misses me etc . There was a period of time when he used to be very busy and stressed out so he'd talk to me only when he felt like ...around that period i guess something changed within me and ever since i don't feel the same passion. And now that i'm about to graduate from college i've started to have other worries in life and don't at all feel the need for love and romance! all his friends are getting married and so he was talking about our future the other day ( as in when will you be prepared to marry me and stuff ) ..but i don't think he is actually prepared yet ..he was just a little drunk .I always dreamed of getting married through my teenage, but now the idea doesn't excite me at all. There is so much to do in life before i get there and the very thought of leaving my parents , marrying a man and settling down agitates me . Is this just a passing phase? or have i grown up into a girl who wants to be single all her life? will the thought of marriage , husband , children etc. ever excite me again???i also feel sexually low ..least attracted to the opposite sex and sometimes 'not in the mood' or atleast the old passion has died out.But i do feel the need for comfort and wish he were here to give me company .something tells me i'm probably angry with him because he's not here giving me comfort and thats the reason i've lost that feeling..and i also feel a liitle jealous when he spends time with his boy friends there and even if he's playing computer games! heck whats wrong with me...??even i spend time with my friends and go out ...! please help,confused
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reader, Hurttohell  +, writes (6 January 2013):
You deserve better & more attention. 2 years girl? Thats crazy. Move out there or get him to move to you. Its always possible. My bf left the military to be with me & moved states 3 times in a year!
Him using you & ignoring you could definately get in the way of romantic & sexual feelings. Theres a lot to be said about human physical contact. This is coming from someone who was in a 8 year relationship with someone who started long distance so I understand it.
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