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I lie to my friends about girlfriends. I've never even had my first kiss!

Q.   Hi er I'm 14 years old and living in Portsmouth ATM I have never had my first kiss and I lie about it to mates to not be embarrassed. How can I change this and build my confidence? I need ideas on who in general and how should I tell them? Thanks ...

A.   21 February 2011: Most people may not this, but I have been in your situation and my advice is: Your first kiss is something to get over with. Other people will say it should be with someone you like and someone it 'means something' with, but this is bullshit... (read in full...)

I'm gay and love a straight friend. I'm in turmoil and need guidance!

Q.   Hi, I'm a 14 (15 in like 2 days) year old boy from England. I know what everyone thinks... 14, way too young to be thinking about love, but read on. I'm gay. Not many people know, i've only told my older sister but i don't think my parents would...

A.   20 February 2011: the bountyhunter, I am unbelievably jealous of you! Your experience sounds like the best thing ever, would love so much for it to happen to me. It's seriously like my dream. Unfortunately, I'm like 99.9% sure this person is straight. And even if ... (read in full...)

I am frightened for her safety!

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been together nearly 2 years. Unfortunately most of the year we are spent separated by 200 miles. She works in a big city where as I live in the countryside, where we both met and are from. I love her dearly, and she ...

A.   7 September 2010: Out of interest, which city is it?... (read in full...)

I'm afraid of coming out because of the conservative society

Q.   Dear readers I’m a 26 years old male professional and successful and I’m virgin. I want to live my life as many people do, find a girl, get married and have kids. I love girls and they are sexy and attractive but when I think about sex I feel th...

A.   21 August 2010: Hi, I'm 15 years old, I'm gay and I'm also from the UK. Firstly, I don't think our soceity is particularly conservative, it's 2010 and MOST people would have absolutely no problem with you being gay. You might get the odd homophobe but yo... (read in full...)

I'm gay and love a straight friend. I'm in turmoil and need guidance!

Q.   Hi, I'm a 14 (15 in like 2 days) year old boy from England. I know what everyone thinks... 14, way too young to be thinking about love, but read on. I'm gay. Not many people know, i've only told my older sister but i don't think my parents would...

A.   24 June 2010: Thank you all for your advice!... (read in full...)

I'm gay and love a straight friend. I'm in turmoil and need guidance!

Q.   Hi, I'm a 14 (15 in like 2 days) year old boy from England. I know what everyone thinks... 14, way too young to be thinking about love, but read on. I'm gay. Not many people know, i've only told my older sister but i don't think my parents would...

A.   23 June 2010: Lola, thank you I found your comment extremely helpful. The reason I don't what to tell my friends is that some of them would probably no longer be my friends, not that they're particularly homophobic but just that they'd feel awkward around me. ... (read in full...)

Gay unrequited love problem.

Q.   Quick details: 16 years old, 17 in August, England, Currently in college studying IT in hopes of going into industry. I have a case of homosexual unrequited love. He's straight, i'm gay, iv'e felt like this for about 8 months now, except then ...

A.   23 June 2010: Toxins, it wouldn't let me PM you because it said 'user may not exist' or 'may have blocked you' or something like that. But yeh I know what it feels like, and it feels like shit. Can I ask you how he knows you like him? Did you tell him?... (read in full...)

Why am I having this dreams?

Q.   I've been having these recurring dreams...all about my boyfriend. Its about us cuddling, kissing, or him shushing me to sleep. I also realized that I always sleep on my pillow like its a person...like my head on someone's chest and my arms hugging ...

A.   22 June 2010: You are quite lucky. Lots of people fantasise about things, as a gay 15 year old I fantasise about doing things with boys which won't possibly happen (because they're straight). You could actually get your boyfriend to do all this cuddling stuff, ... (read in full...)

Gay unrequited love problem.

Q.   Quick details: 16 years old, 17 in August, England, Currently in college studying IT in hopes of going into industry. I have a case of homosexual unrequited love. He's straight, i'm gay, iv'e felt like this for about 8 months now, except then ...

A.   22 June 2010: Hey mate, I'm in exactly the same situation. I'm 15 and love this boy who's straight so much. The one thing which manages to get me through the day is the tiny 0.01% chance that he might be gay. I understand how ridicolous this is, because ... (read in full...)

Gay unrequited love problem.

Q.   Quick details: 16 years old, 17 in August, England, Currently in college studying IT in hopes of going into industry. I have a case of homosexual unrequited love. He's straight, i'm gay, iv'e felt like this for about 8 months now, except then ...

A.   22 June 2010: Hey mate, I'm in exactly the same situation. I'm 15 and love this boy who's straight so much. The one thing which manages to get me through the day is the tiny 0.01% chance that he might be gay. I understand how ridicolous this is, because ... (read in full...)

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