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Why did this guy stop calling me?

Q.   well there is this male and we have been dating for about 12 days now and i really like him we both like the same ice cream and music. he was real sweet and we would have great convo and he was so wise and mature for a 23 yr old. I am still a virgin ...

A.   1 October 2007: You can not place your life on hold for someone. If you do, you leave yourself voulnerable to being used. From what you say he was being evasive about his actions. This in itself is not a promising developement. His reaction to your innocent and not ... (read in full...)

So miserable... My ex-girlfriend is all I want in the world. She cannot be mine, and it hurts. What do you think?

Q.   Please help me. Today, I'm so, so miserable about everything. Call it an off-day if you must, but whatever it is, it's dragging me WAAAY down. It's just over 3 months since my girlfriend and first love broke up with me, due to (as she claims) ...

A.   1 October 2007: Don't fall into the trap of thinking that you need to send another e-mail because the last one didn't get the response you wanted. E-mail after e-mail will push you further appart and intensify your pain further. It is easy to let a situation like ... (read in full...)

I am in love with my best mates girlfriend. What should I do?

Q.   Hekp me. I am in love with my best mates girlfriend but they have only been going out 2 weeks. She is a great person and i really fancy her. But this is my best mate who is a great guy and deserves her. I haven't told them. What do i do, what do i ...

A.   1 October 2007: Your attraction is dangerous and could be destructive all round. The most likely outcome to this should you continue down this path, is that you, your friend and his girlfriend all end up going your separate ways with a great deal of ill feeling. It ... (read in full...)

If my gf kisses another guy does it mean she's cheating on me?

Q.   Hey last time i asked this it got rejected saying it was fake or stupid but it is a real question and i know it does sound stupid but i wanna know, if my gf kisses another guy does it mean shes cheated on me?...

A.   1 October 2007: Kisses are like drugs, they lead to more destructive behaviour. This is a direct disrespect of your feelings and of you in general. If it is that you have seen your girlfriend kissing someone and she has told you it is only a kiss then it is always ... (read in full...)

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