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If there is no medical reason, what else could be the problem if my husband never wants to have sex with me?

Q.   What can I do ,if my husband can't tell,why does he not want to have sex with me? If there is no medical reason, what else could be the reason, if your husband never cares about sex ,yet he used to. I asked him, he says ,he doesn't know why. He did ...

A.   28 June 2011: Put the responsibility of fixing this on his hands ! Ask him to book an appointment with a therapist or a priest or someone. If he is not ready to do that, ask for permision to have your needs met by someone other than him. Stonefaced, this mig... (read in full...)

I feel my wife uses sex to control me, so frustrating!

Q.   I've been married now for four years and we have two kids four and 1 year old. This is my second marriage. My wife and I argue often. Not in front of the kids though. When things are good they are great but we probably argue around 50% of th...

A.   28 June 2011: Hi there. Im sort of in the same situation that you are. My life partner / boyfriend isnt this blunt about it and it seems to be something he does with out intending to hurt me. But after 10 years of not having my needs met in this area I am me... (read in full...)

Does he deserve this last and final chance?

Q.   Long story short, the guy who i dated for a year and a half wants a last chance. Btw hes 20, if that makes a difference. He was the one who i gave multiple chances too and every time i did he would take advantage of it. He knew how much i loved ...

A.   27 September 2010: Let go ! At this age with no kids, no house, etc to make life harder. Well then this should not me this messy. Like Maya Angelu said "when people show you who they are, belive them !" He may be upset, and his feelings probably are true. But t... (read in full...)

So afraid my feelings for this man are obsessive

Q.   Long story. I have been with my bf for 11 years now. We have 2 children, beautiful and healthy, lights of my life. Our relationship has never been ideal, I have my flaws, and he has his. But in the past 3 years things have happened that have l...

A.   27 September 2010: Update. So I am now divorcing. My bf was not happy at all, but I tried to give him space to air his feelings, and had set up an appointment with our therapist the day after I talked to him. It has now been 6 days and so far we are doing things ... (read in full...)

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