Is it just too soon to start a new relationship?
Q. This shouldn't be this difficult. I broke up with the ex January 2nd. The last 3 weeks I've had a really nice, sweet, caring guy in hot pursuit. I've told him several times that I'm in no shape emotionally or psychologically to get into anything ...
A. 23 February 2012: Hun, you're going through a break up.
You're going to be sad... distraught..angry...untrusting...all of that!
You're supposed to be right now. Your heart is hurting, you need time to heal.
Give yourself that time. If you know its not a g... (read in full...)
What is the deal with this girl? Are things still fine between us?
Q. Hi, I met a girl back in November. We went out a few times and slept together then I didn't see her for two months but we stayed in require contact with one another. I asked her a few times in that space of time if we were finished but she told me ...
A. 22 February 2012: I would say that she may really be conflicted. She's just not sure about you...and I wouldn't throw out the possibility that she's seeing someone else. It's always very simple, hun. If someone wants you, they want you. People may choose to... (read in full...)
He pushed me down. Its just not like him.
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been together about a year and a half. We've known each other for nearly 7 years...it just took a while to make it official. Once official, things went fast. Within 2 months we were (practically) living together...within 6 ...
A. 22 February 2012: I really appreciate everybodys input.
I understand that at first, I was being the victim. I really was. I was feeling sorry for myself due to my past, rather than really looking at what happened and why. It makes complete sense why I would feel that... (read in full...)
He pushed me down. Its just not like him.
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been together about a year and a half. We've known each other for nearly 7 years...it just took a while to make it official. Once official, things went fast. Within 2 months we were (practically) living together...within 6 ...
A. 16 February 2012: omg im sorry i asked this question at all. i did not start this argument. i have worked on my aggression and he raised his fist to me over a simple argument! I did not push him until he raised his fist and acted like he was going to hit me... aft... (read in full...)
He pushed me down. Its just not like him.
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been together about a year and a half. We've known each other for nearly 7 years...it just took a while to make it official. Once official, things went fast. Within 2 months we were (practically) living together...within 6 ...
A. 16 February 2012: Let me reiterate: I have sought help for my anger issues. I've gotten better.
We argued last night and he raised his fist to me for no reason. I posed no threat.. and because of my experience with abuse, i pushed him away as i did not want him to h... (read in full...)
He pushed me down. Its just not like him.
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been together about a year and a half. We've known each other for nearly 7 years...it just took a while to make it official. Once official, things went fast. Within 2 months we were (practically) living together...within 6 ...
A. 16 February 2012: I am completely aware of what i've done. Please don't assume such things, if I were unaware, I wouldnt have said i've done the SAME THING.
I have GOTTEN BETTER. I haven't done anything abusive in a while... I now talk calmly when in an altercat... (read in full...)
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