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have people broken mirrors and actually had bad luck after?

Q.   you might think i'm stupid for even asking this question. But this morning I dropped my mirror and a chunk of the corner cracked and came off. I am quite superstitious, so I was wondering if it is true that if you break a mirror it's bad luck? ...

A.   20 May 2013: With the amount of mirrors i've broken, I will have bad luck until I turn 500 years old. . .if I believed in that sort of thing. It's superstitious nonsense to me. What your father said was true. If you believe in it then you'll ALWAYS ONLY focus on ... (read in full...)

Fake profiles on match.com?

Q.   I'd like feedback from other guys who have used match.com. I've had a profile up for a week and already I've received quite a few winks from real hotties. I know sites do this to get gulible men to sign up so I expected one or two, but should I ...

A.   12 May 2013: Yea, they're hoaxes especially if you haven't signed up yet. Many dating sites use this decieving tactic to pull in suckers. The women that message you are most likely fake so the only way to message them back is to buy a membership, only then when ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's drink was spiked and the woman he woke up with now says she is pregnant!

Q.   Help me, please. My boyfriend of a year just told me that about a month ago, he went to this girl's house to help her with her abusive ex. He didn't have a way home, so he sat down and she asked him if he wanted anything to drink. I guess it was ...

A.   11 May 2013: Actually this could all be solved by you talking to her directly. Ask her what happened that day. Ask her if she did indeed spike his drink. If she did, I'm pretty sure it's a crime to DRUG someone then RAPE them, even if she's a woman. Tell her the ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's drink was spiked and the woman he woke up with now says she is pregnant!

Q.   Help me, please. My boyfriend of a year just told me that about a month ago, he went to this girl's house to help her with her abusive ex. He didn't have a way home, so he sat down and she asked him if he wanted anything to drink. I guess it was ...

A.   11 May 2013: Im sorry honey, but as a guy I can honestly say this has BS written all over it. The 'spiked drink' bit isn't used often but it isn't original either. He didn't tell you before because it's a lie (a ridiculous one at that) he made up. Don't believe ... (read in full...)

Should I contact an ex who hurt me for answers and possibly to get him back 

Q.   I was in a 1 and a half relationship and ended it last year March because my boyfriend was behaving badly He was flirting with other women. I expressed my distaste with this behavior and suspected that he was doing more than flirting with two other ...

A.   6 May 2013: Food for thought: The fact that he changed when he was with her and not with you simply means that the two of you were never meant to be. It's easy to look back and say you should have done this or that differently but in the end, it all comes do... (read in full...)

Why did this girl walk away the minute she moved into the house with her boyfriend and not speak to me for a couple of years and then get back in touch, mess me around and fob me off and then shut me out again?

Q.   Hi there. Four years ago I had a relationship with a girl who was about to move in with her long term boyfriend. I know it was wrong but I was lonely and inexperienced and she had issues with her bf and had recently lost her father. We met at ...

A.   31 March 2013: It's simple my friend. You were nomore than a ego trip to her. She found delight in knowing that after years of letting you hang, she can come back and do you over again. She doesn't love you. She doesn't care about you. She only wants to know that ... (read in full...)

How can I ask my customers politely to leave tip?

Q.   I've been waitressing at a restaurant for a few months. I've noticed that certain regulars don't leave tip regardless of service. And of course there are occasional customers that don't tip at all. How can I ask my customers politely to leave tip? ...

A.   27 March 2013: I do something similar to what oldbad says. If my bill is higher than $60, I usually thank the waiter/waitress and be on my merry way. If I didn't spend too much then I usually leave a 5 or 10. There was one time a waitress did ask me how much of ... (read in full...)

Sent him an email ending things hoping for a bit of resistance but he accepted it. I am so sad, what do I do now?

Q.   Hello I have been involved in a 3 1/2 year relationship. My bf likes to flirt a lot, he is in his mid 40s and in my opinion weak willed. We also work together in the same building and recently on the same floor for a period of time. In this time i...

A.   9 March 2013: I'm sorry but the way he accepted it was 100% right. People who uses the threat of breakinng up to shake their partners will are immature and irresposible. You should never break up with someone just to get them to put up a fight or have them feel ... (read in full...)

How can I get past this doubt in my heart that she's being faithful?

Q.   I've heard some rumors about my girlfriend from a friend of mines on campus. He says that someone he knows has been saying he and my girlfriend had a thing a few months back. We're weren't a couple back then so naturally this was something that ...

A.   18 February 2013: We've only been dating 2.5 months. I didn't push the going public thing because I felt it wasn't mandatory at this point. But now I want to because I don't like thinking there's another guy out there who might be talking to my girl and not know that ... (read in full...)

How can I get past this doubt in my heart that she's being faithful?

Q.   I've heard some rumors about my girlfriend from a friend of mines on campus. He says that someone he knows has been saying he and my girlfriend had a thing a few months back. We're weren't a couple back then so naturally this was something that ...

A.   17 February 2013: She says she wants to keep the relationship on the downlow because she feels there are people out there who would want to break us up. She has a lot of admirers on campus and there were many guys competing for her. She says that I was different ... (read in full...)

My BF and I had a fight a week ago and he hasn't called me since. What should I do?

Q.   Dear Cupid My bf and myself had a fight, to be precise he fought with me saying that I'm bugging him when I asked him to spend some time with me also along with his friends. He hasn't called me for a week, what should I do now. I am scared tha...

A.   3 February 2013: Its funny because he could be getting the same advise you are right now. I was in your position a few weeks ago. She wanted more time together, I was too busy with work and school so it was hard seeing her everyday. We got into a heated argument ... (read in full...)

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