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I have a short fuse and now...my gf won't answer my texts or calls! What can I do?

Q.   right how to explain! im 17 and i broke up with my girlfriend of 14 months a couple of months ago but we were still talkin afterwards and gettin on fine but a couple of days ago i lost my temper at her because i do tend to have a short fuse and now ...

A.   19 November 2006: a short fuse. Thats lame man. As a guy you should always be gentle with women. A quick temper not only makes you look stupid and trashy but makes you feel like less of a man... (read in full...)

When a person keeps breaking up with you, does it mean that they don't love you?

Q.   Is it ok to break up and get back together in a relationship? How many times is it ok to keep breaking up and getting back together and if the person your with breaks up with you, does it mean that they don't love you?...

A.   15 November 2006: they don't know what they want. The possibilities are endless as to who we can end up with. When your young you dont understand the mechanics of how messed up people are. We want a sense of perfection that does not exist. Only after we finally lose ... (read in full...)

Should I leave my partner for a younger man who makes me feel happy?

Q.   i am 44 years old and i have a partner that is 47 we have been together for 15 months this time , but i have a secret addmirer who is 10 years younger than me that i know would make me happy as when he calls or texts me i feel very happy inside in ...

A.   15 November 2006: No, you make you happy. the feelings your getting are a feeling of a new high. If your not hapy then there is a reason for that and you need to find out what that is... (read in full...)

All I did was love her; all she did was use and abuse me - I'm devistated. Please help!

Q.   I will appreciate any advice and help on this, well it is a long story but I will keep it short, I meet this girl through internet, she come here to UK to work, she was a European citizen so in that sense she didn’t need me for visa or anything like ...

A.   15 November 2006: Do not let this get to you. Move on with your life, the longer you do the worse you will feel and they are not thinking of how you feel or they would not hurt you in the first place. Women are good things and not all of them are bad. Take hope in ... (read in full...)

All I did was love her; all she did was use and abuse me - I'm devistated. Please help!

Q.   I will appreciate any advice and help on this, well it is a long story but I will keep it short, I meet this girl through internet, she come here to UK to work, she was a European citizen so in that sense she didn’t need me for visa or anything like ...

A.   15 November 2006: You are dealing with a victim. A victim is a person who has been treated badly in a past relationship. These people could have been physically abused by a former relation or parent, or mentally abused. In a sense, they really don't like people as ... (read in full...)

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