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Is he trying to play some kind of game?

Q.   So almost 2 months ago i met this guy, he got my number and we have texted everyday since. He asked me out once, then i asked him out(didnt happen because of floods) then he asked me out and we went out and had a good time. About a week and a half ...

A.   21 March 2011: I've had 3 dates with a guy he asked me out the first time,I did the 2nd time an him the 3rd(last Saturday). He got sick on that date so I took him home and got him into bed..since then nothing..it doesn't take long to text and if he were really ... (read in full...)

I trust him but I don't trust his ex, and from his text messages it seems he met up with her at 3am last night! I cant talk to him about this so what should I do?

Q.   Hi, i need some serious advice.i'm not the kind of person who would normally do this as whenever i have a conflict, i believe i am mature enough to handle it myself. but this is something that is really messing me up.me and my boyfriend have almost ...

A.   21 March 2011: I've just come out of a very bad situation myself..we were together a year but after he broke it off with me,I found out he'd been cheating on me with his ex the whole time and lying to me about it. He was going round there visiting her and telling ... (read in full...)

I get attached easily and over analyze relationships. HELP!

Q.   New Relationship anxiety..help.advice! I have always had a slightly anxious mistrusting personality and have found relationships difficult. My last relationship of 1 year ended in December when I discovered he was cheating with multiple women a...

A.   20 March 2011: Thank you both of you,it all makes so much sense! So I am dong my best to not over text and let him get on with his very busy job. He felt bad on Saturday because he got sick halfway through our date so I had to take him home and get him settled..he ... (read in full...)

Should I ever forgive my insulting, cheating bf?

Q.   My boyfriend cheated on me for 3 months with a girl who is: ugly a bully selfish completely self-centered and then said he didn't so I just let it be because she could have been lying... Today i find out he is cheating on me with 4 of his exes...

A.   1 March 2011: he has disrespected you and no one deserves that! You can do so much better so its time to move on. I'm going through something similar so you are not alone in this... (read in full...)

My non-exclusive boyfriend has an on-off fiance!

Q.   Please let me know what you think about my situation... any comments or advice are appreciated :) I found out the day after valentines day that my nonexclusive bf of 11 months has secretly still been engaged with his on and off Fiance. Apparent...

A.   1 March 2011: I have to agree with Cindy,this sounds oh so familiar.. I've just come out of a relationship where my ex blamed his 'psycho baby momma ex',lied,cheated etc,and to give him credit she does have some screws loose but it isn't all her. this whole set ... (read in full...)

Husband on Craig's list looking for casual meetings

Q.   I have concerns about my husband. I keep noticing him paying attention to everything in his life but me. I realize the honeymoon has been over for half a year now, but I liked the way things were. I liked being his best friend. Tonight I was on a ...

A.   1 March 2011: You need to nip this is the bud now and voice your concerns. If he is meeting up with other women in your area,then he is betraying his marriage vows,pure and simple.... (read in full...)

He was cheating on me for 3 months and even took her to meet his parents! I would leave but I am pregnant......what should I do?

Q.   I have been in a relationship for the past 3 years, me and my bf/ fiance have a 2 year old together, we live together. He bought me a ring we just haven't really planned a wedding yet! Here's my problem I really love him he's great to me so ...

A.   1 March 2011: I'm sorry he is disrespecting you so badly but now is the time to start thinking of you and the interests of your child. Do you want a dishonest man as a husband and father? He is trying to blame you to deflect responsibility for his actions,I ... (read in full...)

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