I just want to be happy and have an easy carefree mind and life. Will I ever get over this?
Q. (PREVIOUS QUESTION) I recently posted about a situation where 5 years ago i got drunk and naked and everyone took photos of me and passed it round my home town and they still haunt me today-everyone that i meet gets shown them and while i didn't w...
A. 15 October 2008: It is not ridiculous that you care so much.
It is a horrible thing that happened to you.
Disprespectful and incredibly embaressing.
Don't try and brush it off as nothing because it isnt.
However, there are ways to deal with real situaions and fe... (read in full...)
How do I change my behavior and my mindset so that I don't sabotage this relationship that I do not want to lose?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm not sure whether to break up with my boyfriend or not. We have been dating for 2 and a half years, we live together, and we love each other. But I am very insecure, and needy. I rely on him a lot for reassurance, and I really am ...
A. 15 October 2008: Firstly,
Discussing your relationship is never a good idea.
The truth is, he probably isnt thinking about it the same way you are. You do need to chill because otherwise he wont be able to handle it. It sounds like he does love you, you live tog... (read in full...)
People make fun of how I look! I feel like I'm not a normal teenager anymore...advice?
Q. Hey everyone, I'm a male and 17 years old and over the past few years I feel like I've drifted away from being a "normal" teenager. It's my senior year in high school right now and during my middle school years up until my freshman years I...
A. 15 October 2008: Firstly,
There is no such thing as a 'normal' teenager.
Secondly, these kids sound really mean.
Don't let it get you to.
Remember, only a few more years of school and then your off to a new world, were intellect and creativity is wat ma... (read in full...)
My friends make fun of me! What can I do?
Q. what can i do? My friends are always being mean n making me feel bad about my self like the make fun about my wieght what should i do? ...
A. 15 October 2008: They are just getting off on making you feel bad. I would ask them to stop in a gentle way and if they dont I would accept that they arent really my friends and move on :)... (read in full...)
I can like a guy for months, but if I go out with him, all the attraction disappears - what's going on?
Q. I think I have a problem. It's like I like a boy and I can talk to him everyday for 6 months {without being with him} and still like him. But when I finally go with him all my attraction to him is gone [like it was never there]. It happening now. ...
A. 15 October 2008: It seems that what you are attracted to is actually the fantasy of the boy rather than the boy himself. You fabricate in your own mind who he is and how you would be together and because you like him for such a long time, you do this for a while. ... (read in full...)
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