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What are the after effects of interrupting a diet, on your birthday? Should I turn down the cake?

Q.   hi i have been trying to lose weight for about a week and i am not expecting any results as i am not on a drastic diet, jsut healthier eating. I want to be much slimmer by summer 08 and i want the weight to stay off. however, it is my birt...

A.   15 January 2008: Just one day wont matter as long as you go stright back on the diet afterwards. Infact many diets plans recommend a "naughty day" once as week to keep you going, so you dont slip off the track. Enjoy the cake on your birthday!... (read in full...)

What makes you are Virgin?

Q.   Okay so i have a question about what makes you a virgin. I know that different people fell different ways about this subject but i want opinions. I havent had sex but i have given oral, and hand jobs, and i have been fingered. Am I still considered ...

A.   15 January 2008: You are considered a virgin until you actually have full penetrative sex... (read in full...)

Why two condoms???

Q.   me and my boyfriend have decided it's time for us to have sex,the only problem is,he wants to wear two condoms for extra safety,but i have told him that they will rub together and brake but he won't listen,how do i make him listen to me? thanks...

A.   11 January 2008: Just buy some extra safe condoms and you should be fine. Durex make an "extra safe" version. Maybe this will make him feel more comfortable. ... (read in full...)

Why two condoms???

Q.   me and my boyfriend have decided it's time for us to have sex,the only problem is,he wants to wear two condoms for extra safety,but i have told him that they will rub together and brake but he won't listen,how do i make him listen to me? thanks...

A.   11 January 2008: Just buy some extra safe condoms and you should be fine. Durex make an "extra safe" version. Maybe this will make him feel more comfortable. ... (read in full...)

Why two condoms???

Q.   me and my boyfriend have decided it's time for us to have sex,the only problem is,he wants to wear two condoms for extra safety,but i have told him that they will rub together and brake but he won't listen,how do i make him listen to me? thanks...

A.   11 January 2008: Just buy some extra safe condoms and you should be fine. Durex make an "extra safe" version. Maybe this will make him feel more comfortable. ... (read in full...)

I have very pale skin - anyone have foundation recommendations?

Q.   I have extremely pale skin, and whilst I'm not in anyway ashamed of this or want to change it, I find it very hard to shop for foundation. I have tried Clinique, and most of the less expensive brands, Maybelline, Rimmel, etc. But all of the make up ...

A.   5 October 2007: Try No 7 tinted moisturiser. It comes in some very light shades and is not too heavy like normal foundation. It gives great coverage and is much better for your skin... (read in full...)

Can I lose my virginity with a sex toy?

Q.   can i lose my virginity with a sex toy? i mean can i break my hymen with a sex toy and then it ll be easy for my husband pls help ?...

A.   3 October 2007: Yes you will "break" by using a sex toy but you will still be a virgin. You are a virgin until a mans penis enters your vagina.... (read in full...)

How many positions for sex are there? I want to spice things up with my husband.

Q.   can you tell me how many positions of sex exsist? I want to know to change positions to satisfy my husband for i'm not so experienced in that. Thank you for your help....

A.   28 August 2007: 49! Lol! Maybe buy the Kama Sutra. They are all in there! I bought it and its a great book. A good way of spicing things up also when you look through the book together and decide which one to try next! xxx... (read in full...)

If I double up with 2 methods of protection is it safe to stop worrying about pregnancy?

Q.   I am almost 16 and have been with my boyfriend for 10 months, not to mention 2 years when we were younger. I love him and am ready to have sex with him however the only thing holding me back is the possibility of pregnancy even using contraception. ...

A.   24 August 2007: For gods sake shes asking an honest question here! Firstly you should go to the dr and explain that are ready to have sex and ask to be put on the contraceptive pill. Its a pill that you take once a day and it stops you getting pregnant (provided ... (read in full...)

What is the average age to lose your virginity?

Q.   what is the average age to lose your virginity? it's just that i'm a 20 year old male and i haven't had sex ever. yet when someone asked when i lost my virginity and i said i hadn't they called me a weirdo. am i quite old not to have had sex?...

A.   22 August 2007: Dont worry about it. Everyone is differnt. My bf was 20 when he lost his to me this year! It should be with the right person when you feel ready. Personally i applaud you for waiting this long. My bf thought he was weird for not having done it b... (read in full...)

I love my boyfriend, but I really want to have sex with a girl just once

Q.   Okay...I've been with my boyfriend for nearly three years, we live together and I've known him for most of my life, we've always been great friends. He's the greatest boyfriend I could ever wish for-he's kind, affectionate and supportive and I ...

A.   17 August 2007: Maybe suggest a threesome with your boyfriend. That way he is also involved in your fantasy and wont feel hurt and you get to experience what you want to xxx... (read in full...)

His best friend is female.

Q.   MY BOYFRIEND HAVE A FEMALE BESTFRIEND, WHAT ADVICE CAN YOU GIVE ME?...

A.   9 August 2007: I dont understand why this is a problem. Im sure you would think he was being unrealistic if your best mate was a man and he didnt like it! Dont be so silly. My best friend of 19 years is a man and my boyfriend is totally cool with it. Why d... (read in full...)

We see each other on average about 5 times a week, however unless it's a lucky week where I see him 7 times, then I don't feel satisfied.

Q.   I am 18 years old and this year I started my first real serious relationship. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6 months now and I have gotten to the point where I find it hard to cope with him not around!!! I get really down, upset and ...

A.   31 July 2007: I know exactly how you feel hun. I am like this too! Trying to learn how to enjoy "me time" again! If you like email me and we can support each other through and maybe find some way of overcoming this. ... (read in full...)

The condom came off, so we used the morning after pill, but I am late!

Q.   The condom me and my boyfriend were using came off during sex and we did not realise. He came inside me. I took the morning after pill as soon as i could the next day. I am now 4 days late for my period. I have all the symptns for my period to ...

A.   31 July 2007: Sometimes worrying makes your period late. I was in a similar situation and i was a week late and broke down in tears and everything and then the next morning it came on. Try not to worry for now. If you still dont get your period after about 2 ... (read in full...)

Is there any way that I could still get pregnant?

Q.   Hello all, I went on the pill three days after my period started and was told that this would make it work straight away. I was also told to use condoms for at least 7 days, just in case. I waited 8 days after going on the pill and me and my bo...

A.   27 July 2007: As long as you didnt have unprotected sex within the first 7 days you will be fine. As soon as you have taken 7 tablets it works fully. You should still use a condom though unless you have both been tested for STD's and are sure that your relation... (read in full...)

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