My wife and I are giving our relationship another chance after we both had affairs, how can we move on from this and let go of the past?
Q. Hi to all the people who answered my previous questions, about my affair and my wifes affair. We have got back together, we are both anxious, we both have trust issuse's, we both feel crushed. We are letting go of the past, after taking out the ...
A. 6 January 2010: Thanks for the replies, we will continue to go to counselling, which we started 3 months ago. It didnt quite work then has we both lied in the sessions.The replies you have given made both of us cry, thanks.
The hardest part in this is acce... (read in full...)
What am I supposed to learn from my affair and failed marriage?
Q. I had the affair first, im still trying to understand why. I pushed my wife away then she had an affair. I have lied and cheated, i have been egotistical and controlling. I have hurt my wife and my young children. I have destroyed everything that i ...
A. 15 December 2009: Thankyou for your answers. Sometimes i ask stupid questions because i really dont have a clue emotionally. I had a abusive childhood and attachment issuse with my mother. Some of the reasons behind my affair are because i didnt know how to ... (read in full...)
My wife and I both had affairs but she won't forgive me for mine
Q. After many months of hell, and my wife's affair, my suspected affair, myself and my wife decided to give it another go. She has been honest with all that has happenned, so I decided to confirm to her the affair I had that she suspected. She's gone ...
A. 14 December 2009: Yes eddie there is much truth to what you say. But i saved my wife 7 years ago from an abusive relationship. She idolised me and created an ideal relationship, too ideal, no consistency. She projected this ideal onto me. It was hard to keep with her ... (read in full...)
I want her back, but for what?
Q. Hi i originally posted here on the 11th july, asking advice as to whether my wife was having an affair. Well 5 months on i have the truth. My wife had an affair for about 6 weeks, she went to hotels for chat and sex and sex in this guys flat above ...
A. 10 December 2009: Hi thanks for the replies, we were going to relate and she lied. Then she run off with the kids and stayed in a refuge for a few weeks. I went to relate alone. Now she is back living in a des res apartment.I went to relate the other night she turned ... (read in full...)
We were moving, now she doesn't want me to move in..what is going on?
Q. Due to the credit crunch me, my wife and two children 3 and 5yrs. Was moving into rented accomadation while we sell our home. She has now moved into new place while i finish home and sell. But now she doesnt want me to move in, she says she loves me ...
A. 12 July 2009: Update and statement, she went out and stayed out, ilooked after the kids, it was good to be with my kids. Talked calmly the next day asked about affair she said no again. She said things have been bad for a couple of years as i have detached myself ... (read in full...)
We were moving, now she doesn't want me to move in..what is going on?
Q. Due to the credit crunch me, my wife and two children 3 and 5yrs. Was moving into rented accomadation while we sell our home. She has now moved into new place while i finish home and sell. But now she doesnt want me to move in, she says she loves me ...
A. 11 July 2009: Thanks for the answer, i did ask her if she was having an affair and she said no!! She then has become more defensive blaming me for the break in this relationship because i have let the credit crunch ruin us. We met 7 years ago through a friend, ... (read in full...)
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