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I said that the outset that I only wanted a sexual relationship, but now I'm wanting more

Q.   When i broke up with my boyfriend at the end of last year i started meeting up with this boy who had also just got out of a long term relationship.. at first we used to go out for drinks etc then we eventually slept together and i said how i was up ...

A.   20 June 2010: Well, from the things you have said it does in fact sound as if he does like you in a romantic way and not just in a friend way. HOWEVER, the only way to find out is to ask. It is not difficult, all you have to do is tell him that you are starting ... (read in full...)

Is it safe to skip the condom while on the pill?

Q.   I'm taking birth control, I've been on it for about 3 months now, never missed a day. I haven't been active, but I'm curious that if I have sex, is my boyfriend able to finish in me, without the chance of getting pregnant. We don't want to use a ...

A.   20 June 2010: Firstly, there will ALWAYS be a chance that sex, with or without any or every form of contraception, (short of a vasectomy,) could invariably lead to pregnancy. I need to say this so that you are aware that it is never truely safe. Howev... (read in full...)

Am I wrong for wanting to break up with him over this?

Q.   I've been seeing my co-worker for over a month now. We went through nine weeks of training together, and became pretty close within the last few weeks, and started dating - which is completely unlike me for many reasons. He has a 2 year old ...

A.   20 June 2010: Firstly I feel compelled to say that you sound incredibly mature and headstrong, with a good set of strong values. It is for this reason that I must say that, no; it was not wrong of you do split up with him due to that. Usually I would say that t... (read in full...)

Is he gay if he likes anal massages?

Q.   i was just curious about something. been with my partner 2 years, we are really happy together and have high sex drives (we are at it everyday most of the time) the other night he guided my finger up his bum, while he led there masturbating and he c...

A.   20 June 2010: Simply the answer is no; the simply fact that he enjoys anal stimulation does not make him gay. Having sexual and emotional feelings beyond those of a platonic nature would give one cause to suspect he is gay, but you must remember that many men do ... (read in full...)

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