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*lordia_charm's profile: IS HE CHEATING?? i want to first start out by saying i have been cheated on in the past and i think the cheating maybe my problem now..??so this is my problem my boyfriend and i have been togther for 6 months before starting a relationship we were best friends but keep in mind he cheated with his "at the time" girlfriend with me so he left her for me so shortly after march our relationship kicked off in high mode traveling alot and spending alot of time with each other O-so in love ...then one day were out in tx visting his kids and i find a number from a girl in his bag he promised he didnt know what it was about.(he has alot of companies) so i didnt pay it any mind after i got over now we come to my real problems so one night im calling him non-stop for 4 hours. so im worried i drive 45mins to his work place to make sure hes ok 101 things are running though my mind and yes cheating was one but his safety was my first thought.so i pull up to his place of work and walk in side to find 3 girls and 2 of his friends/co-workers. rewiring his poolroom he owns we'll the girls want to leave when i walk-in to he gets off the lader and hugs them*then said it was nothing a joke they come there to hang out.(it was after hours)so then a few months later im up there talking to him im hurt because he just told me hes going to 6flags with his friends/co-workers(same guys)the next day so hes always working we never spend anytime together ,but he has time to go out with these guys to 6flags dinners etc.so long story short im leaving the parking lot and this little teenager runs up and jumps on him.i said a few choice words and left.(yet why would some random girl do that)i would never do that ..isnt it tashy?so then a month or so later im at his gas station getting gas and heading home "sam" had already left,as im leaving the same girls from the poolroom that time, came in wheres "sam" i need to talk to him hes not picking up his phone i need to hang out bla bla..his friend says "sams" not taking phone calls right now...so i walk up to her and ask what she needs from him..she said o-i want to hang out we havent hung out in forever....so i call him and hand her the phone..she walks off so i cant hear her and shortly comes back hands me my phone then i leave and call"sam" he said i dont know what she wants "i didnt to anything i cant help other peoples actions"....then i forgave him....now another few months past by its now 2nd week of sept. he got into a "problem" and had his mouth wired closed so i came up to his gas station to check on him to make sure he was able to drive ...so hes fine i leave to go get food that he can eat after that he text me saying im on my way home not feeling well' ok so i think hes on his way home so i go pick up my brother and were running to take back "sams" shoes because i got the wrong size so were going by the gas station "sams"cars still there with the keys in his car unlocked with his personal bag there which he never leaves it has money from the companies in it etc etc. just laying there so i then notice the same girl that i had the problems with before her car is parked at the very back side of the gas station....i walk inside and "sams" no where to be found...(keep in mind he cant talk) so i ask the co-worker wheres sam?? o-he left with the ice man..(there is no i ice man)..i then find sam next door at the libary across the rd he said he was trying to get the guy that hit him...the guy cant be no more than 1000ft from him of his going to prison..so why would he be there and why didnt i see him if thats the case so i come back to the gas station and ask the girl what shes doing there so said"o im with sam..MY THOUGHTS:::sam was in the car with her ducked down til i went in the gas station so i wouldnt see him and the ran to the libray and made up an excuse....OR AM'I TOTALY a wreck thinking hes cheating i mean this girls 17-18 and hes 36 .....please what do you think and what would you do??

I'm heartbroken all over again because my ex is engaged to someone. Please help..

I need help to stop feeling jealous! What can I do???

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