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Is this just a phase or have I gone too far?

Q.   I have a problem and it's quite weird so I don't quite know who else to talk to. Background: I've been going out with this lovely man for 2 years now. He is 28 and I'm 22. I've always received a lot of male attention but I never met the person I ...

A.   13 July 2009: I think you need to leave him ASAP. What you are doing now has got to be destroying whatever is left of his pride and self esteem. By staying you are remaining unhappy and he is quite possibly going to be scarred for life relationship wise (if he's ... (read in full...)

Do I chuck 16 months with ex and move on?

Q.   Hey aunts and uncles. I have recently written on here before maybe 2-3 weeks ago, about how i had started to like another boy that i had only known for 2 weeks, when i had a boyfriend that id been with for 16 months. Well il update everyone b...

A.   6 July 2009: You need to get out of this relationship and stay out of it. This guy is a head-case and an abusive one at that. Don't think he will change and it will get better - he won't and neither will the situation (in my opinion anyway). You are your own ... (read in full...)

I embarassed my gf and now she wont talk to me!

Q.   Me and my girlfriend of 3 years went to a party together. She usually doesn't wear stuff that shows off her body cause she thinks its slutty (she only wears clothes that sre 3 sizes too big or borrows my clothes). Anyway I somehow get her to a tube ...

A.   23 June 2009: Well first up you are going to have to acknowledge that you are completely in the wrong on this one. By your own admission your g/f is very self conscious and took a big risk out of love for you by wearing these clothes in the first place. She would ... (read in full...)

Is ignoring someone a good way to break up with them?

Q.   I am breaking up with my girlfriend. I plan on doing the whole ignoring treatment. I stopped talking to her, I stopped calling and I am ignoring her txt msgs. She has a feeling that I will be doing this. Is this a good method and what would...

A.   17 June 2009: You have to be up front with her first. I'm not a big fan of staying friends with the ex simply because I think people need space to move on and it's not fair for the ex factor to impact on new relationships any more than it has to. But you still ... (read in full...)

How do you let go of a first love?

Q.   How do you let go of your 1st love? I can't seem to fully do it. I love my boyfriend now, and i want to be with him always, but i can't let go of the past. My first love was my best friend, and i find it hard that he's going to a different college ...

A.   15 June 2009: I know everyone is different but I don't know how you love someone with all your heart be in love with someone else. I know I would be devastated if my partner was still in love with their ex while they were with me (if I was serious about them ... (read in full...)

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