My husband and I stayed together, just plodding along to this day, but our marriage was always unhappy, we've had ups and downs but mostly downs. Is it time to part?
Q. Hello, I need some advise, please help, I appreciate your honest opinions. It's a long one, but I want you to be as informed as possible, so I have more informed responses. I have been married 4 years, I married at 21, I met my husband at 17. I...
A. 18 September 2008: Yes your story is sad and yet seems to be common. In short you were young when you married, had children to "have children" instead of seeing it as building a family together with your husband. Having children under the circumstances you did was a ... (read in full...)
I think I should leave him but I don't do it. I think if I do that then I may not find nobody that can treat me good. So I cry every day!
Q. I don’t know how to begin so I gues ill just start talking. I afarid. Afraid that no matter how nuch I try ill never meet someone that will love me as much as I do them. I know someone that will but he doesn’t want to. Should I just sit around here ...
A. 18 September 2008: You sound to me like you have been scared for a long time, scared of not being loved and cared. Saying "you just want to be loved", suggests when you don't feel that way, you will be unhappy. In other words, you have based your happiness on how ... (read in full...)
Should I apologise for yelling to get his attention? Should he have apologised for the huge bruise on my leg? Should I find better ways to deal with him when he is moody?
Q. Last weekend I went to a club and met my boyfriend there. He went out with his guy friends first and I went out with my girlfriends first. When I walked in he was super sweet and flirty and we were all having a great time. We were sitting at a booth ...
A. 16 September 2008: Your boyfriend sounds childish and I suspect learned to "withdraw" when he was young. Let him crawl in his cave and when he comes out, simply tell him "what happened" and let it go. Your boyfriend needs to grow up and learn how to deal with people ... (read in full...)
I don't want to divorce. Is my marriage over?
Q. About 8 months ago, I discovered my wife of 12 years was having an affair. I am a stay-at-home dad who runs a business from my home and does so because I love my three daughters dearly. My wife's schedule is very demanding, so she does not have the ...
A. 16 September 2008: By your own admission, your wife has lost respect for you and that shows with her continued involvement with the other man. When one loses respect for another, it is easy to justify one's actions (her being infidel).
I just went through a divorc... (read in full...)
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