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Partner racist and its really disturbing to me

Q.   Hi, I have a problem that is causing me a lot of distress. I've been with my partner for 6 years now, during which time I have supported him through all sorts of problems, including a messy acrimonious divorce. He has always been 'difficult'...

A.   10 May 2009: Hi. I have one question: if your best friend was in exactly the same situation as you..... what would you be feeling? You are clearly a lovely person and have brought up at least one well balanced and loving daughter. Your boyfriend is a p... (read in full...)

Is the tech interested?

Q.   Ok so this is what happened. i was having a phone line installed and this really hot tech shows up to do it. he's about 10 yrs younger then me but i don't look my age, anyway. i wasn't paying that much attention to him at first but he had to go out ...

A.   9 May 2009: Ooooh 'otherstarfish' is being very cheeky ;-) Maybe Mr HOT Tech does 'have' lots of other women.... But what's most interesting is you - and this is not meant to be unkind - sounding like a teenager. This is a TCS (Total Chemistry Situation) ... (read in full...)

Now what do I do he is still emphatically denying it.

Q.   Hi there i hope somebody can help. I have been married for 4 years. We have 2 children, 3 and 9 months with our 3rd due in october. It all started the day before our first wedding anniversary we were away when my phone received a picture message ...

A.   9 May 2009: Hi. Sorry to hear about your situation. You have nothing to be embarrassed about - it's your husband's behaviour that is embarrassing. His behaviour is totally disrespectful to you. If it's ok I'm going to list some observations/questions: ... (read in full...)

He mentally abused me, how can someone do that?

Q.   Crying my eyes out as i write this. Ive just found out my boyfriend of 3yrs has slept with 10 women behind my back! We dont live in the same town and i always new deep down something was wrong! Nights out with the lads getting drunk not knowing how ...

A.   28 April 2009: You are a sweetheart. I totally agree with the first three excellent posts but want to give a male perspective. Your boyfriend is clearly mentally unwell. He may be a sex addict or have some elements of a personality disorder. At the very least ... (read in full...)

How do I tell him how I feel?

Q.   I have a boy-trauma situation that I don't quite know how to handle and am hoping someone can help..... A few months ago, I moved in in with a male friend of mine who I've known for about 8 years (we are both in our early 30s). I have always b...

A.   28 April 2009: You are in a tricky and stressful situation. The prospect of jeopardising a good friendship and a home you enjoy is not an easy one to consider. However, do you want to get to 80 years old and always regret not telling him how you really feel? You ... (read in full...)

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