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New people, new school. I need help with making friends with people who already have they own social groups. How do I make this happen please?

Q.   Im going to a new school this Wednesday the 8th and its a alternative charter high school the environment seems to consist with ghetto teens. (dont mean to be mean) I normally am in a environment with a lot of diverse people but here its all the ...

A.   7 May 2013: Read the book "How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie. He says that a dog always has friends. When he sees you, he waggles his tail and jumps out of his skin. You just have to act like a dog. Be enthusiastic, have energy, ... (read in full...)

Should I keep trying or is it time to throw in the towel?

Q.   So I've been in a relationship with "A" for almost 3 years now. In the past 6 months or so I've been "dumped" 3 times by him. It's always the same situation. He is feeling depressed and unsuccessful in his life and things aren't going his way, h...

A.   22 April 2013: I think marriage is the answer. He needs a little stability in his life. I can tell that you really love him. He will get better as he gets older. He just needs a little more self confidence.... (read in full...)

Is my significant other micromanaging me and is he also needy and clingy?

Q.   My significant other saw me organizing my workspace at home (I work out of the home). I needed to get it in order to take pictures for the tax file. He told me I should be working at my drafting table. He told me I have too much stuff in my curi...

A.   22 April 2013: He sounds like the perfect man to me. There are thousands of women who would love to have him. I'm jealous. Keep him. ... (read in full...)

Love versus hate? Should I stay or should I break up?

Q.   Hi all. Just hoping for some sensible advice and support... It's a rather complicated story... and I really appreciate no one wants to listen to someone waffle on so I'm cutting it real simple When I got with my bf a year ago we worked together...

A.   22 April 2013: You should stay with him. You guys have chemistry. I think you wouldn't be satisfied with somebody else. He drives you crazy, but this is a good thing. He makes you feel alive. Unfortunately, he's probably the type of guy you will never be able ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend was annoyed by my FB post. Did she over-react? Was her reaction immature? I thought the post was light fun.

Q.   Three days ago, I wrote on my Facebook Wall that "If you can't change the girl, change the girl!" . My girlfriend (for two years) didn't like it and called me jerk when she met me later. She is talking to me but can see some change in her at...

A.   22 April 2013: Post another message on facebook. Say, "If you can't change the girl, then change the stupid boyfriend". Apologize to her publicly.... (read in full...)

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