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I am 25 and a very free spirited person..meaning i haven't had a boyfriend for more than about 5 mo at a time..but i'm experienced at life and in a lot of ways..i have traveled in europe, eastern europe, and south america..and i want to travel more as soon as i can afford it..i have a BA in psychology and right now i'm going back to school working on my masters in teaching.

I am very understanding and open-minded, I try to accept everything as a part of reality and consider its significance/sources/implications, even if it might be disturbing to me. I guess you could say i take people on their own terms, sometimes to a fault. Once I let someone in its hard for me to let go or stop caring about them..sometimes even when I realize it's not a healthy or equal relationship, it's still difficult for me to move on. This is something I'm working on..

Especially right now (with two friends of mine)..well one of them was a bit more than a friend (a guy i used to like)..anyway I will be posting questions about them..

I love meeting new people and i'm very social, but (like most people) I don't let many people into my heart..i have to get that special feeling (that we have a connection)..i believe you can have more than 1 soul mate, most of mine are girls..so far anyway. its hard for me to trust guys because of my past experiences (both first and second-hand)..i have been hurt a lot but that doesn't stop me from loving..i am adventurous and not scared to take risks.

He doesn't really want me around him...so should I just lose contact or email him in a couple months?

Q.   there is this guy i have known for almost a year. we met at a place we both used to work (but don't anymore). anyway, we were mostly just friends although i think he liked me a bit and i started to like him too..we are both very free-spirited and ...

A.   6 August 2009: Thank you so much for your response, you're sweet. is there any way i could add you to my friends list? that sounds a lot like our relationship, it wasn't the healthiest dynamic..although it was more about him depending on me in othr ways (not ... (read in full...)

He doesn't really want me around him...so should I just lose contact or email him in a couple months?

Q.   there is this guy i have known for almost a year. we met at a place we both used to work (but don't anymore). anyway, we were mostly just friends although i think he liked me a bit and i started to like him too..we are both very free-spirited and ...

A.   15 July 2009: Thank you so much for ur advice, i see what you're saying and you are sweet to look out for me=) however, i don't want to be his girlfriend..and i think he might have felt rejected because i expressed this many times. when i tried to be friends ... (read in full...)

Is having chemistry important?

Q.   I will start by saying that while I am open to the possibility of a relationship, I am very comfortable and happy being single. I have never been the type that has to have a boyfriend to feel secure and good about myself. And, often in the past, ...

A.   15 July 2009: hey there=) reading your post was funny..it could have been me writing the same exact thing..i am very independent and free spirited, i don't need a guy and i don't often meet guys that can draw me in and give me enough of a challenge to last..i'm ... (read in full...)

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