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Do I tell my sister that her boyfriend is coming on to me?

Q.   my sister is 2 years younger than me and she has a bf the same age as me. They've gone out 4r a year! She's lost her virginity with him and has told me that he is the one and that she loves him. And she isn't messing, she takes love very seriously! ...

A.   29 December 2010: I would not tell her . It may ruin your relationship with your sister, but find other ways around to put him down . Myabe he is also interested in other women - point that out to her... (read in full...)

Regaining Wife's Respect

Q.   Hello everyone I am newly married to my wife well about a year.I recently made a mistake and left my job to invest into a business.It didn't work out so here I am unemployed looking for a job.My wife already was complaining about me i.e. I don't ...

A.   26 December 2010: Think it this way: If she were always understanding and appreciative you would not try that hard. I am not together with my husband, but if we were I would have criticized him so that he would have more motivation to do things . That way our ... (read in full...)

I just found out I'm pregnant and he doesn't want kids

Q.   I need some advice. So i'm 17,my boyfriend is 19, we've been together for over 2 years. Yesterday my boyfriend and I were talking and the subject of kids got brought up. Anyways so my boyfriend said that he doesn't want any kids. Today I just fou...

A.   25 December 2010: Sounds like you will end up being a single mom no matter what . Are you ready to be a single mom and take care of a child all by yourself? Do you have financial security ? Does he have money ? It is very hard to raise a kid . I can understand that ... (read in full...)

Dating a man 20 years older I really can't see what I am getting out of this relationship

Q.   I am 35 in a relationship (for 20 months now) with a man of 55. I love him, he wants to marry me, but i am hesitating. Sex is nearly absent (he has medical sexual problems), there is no financial security, and all issues that come with 20 years age ...

A.   25 December 2010: It would be ridiculous to get married to a broke guy who can not have sex with you. I am 31 , I think about dating older guys sometimes but I would not date a guy who is 20 years older than if he does not give me some type of security . But there ... (read in full...)

Does he love me or just like me as a friend?

Q.   I'm really close friends with this one guy. I'v known him for a really long time, and I sorta like him... alot. We're both muslim, so we can't date. So the other day was my birthday. I don't have a facebook, but one of my close friends posted on ...

A.   25 December 2010: Dont worry, if he really loves you he will make sure that you find out about it . He will let you know... (read in full...)

All my relationships seem to end with an abrupt "It's not you, it's me"

Q.   every relationship ive ever had has ended abruptly and has never lasted more than a few months. even though she says its not you its me, i just never seem to know why or how i can make sense of it bcos it happens so suddenly. just as all my ...

A.   25 December 2010: I will be honest with you . Most probably these girls are losing interest in you and they do not see a future with you and they do not want to hurt your feelings by admitting that you did not turn out to be what they expected to be . If this is ... (read in full...)

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