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... Send *ijit a private message | | | *ijit's profile:I am a 25 year old female, currently living and working in Dubai,U.A.E. I am in a tumultuous 3 year relationship that yo-yo's between extreme joy and extreme sadness. I'm hoping we'll find a way to co-exist because this man is truly my soul-mate and he feels the same for me. Am looking for help from all of you to heal us! |
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Is this kind of fighting my fault?
Q. I am in a loving but emotional rollercoaster of a relationship that can get verbally abusive and extremely hurtful. It's been 3 years and we are both tired of it, recognise the problem, but somehow haven't worked out a way of dealing with it. Let ...
A. 27 December 2007: Hi everyone
Thank you so much for all your replies.
It's funny I've been away from my desk for a day...I was at his house...we talked.
Or actually...like truly_unique suggested: I wrote him a letter.
We had a really good, honest talk -... (read in full...)
How do I get him to realise his role in killing the passion in our relationship??
Q. My boyfriend of 3 years complains that I am not passionate in bed anymore and I don't initiate sex. I thought about it for awhile and I realised that while I give a lot, I don't get a lot. He hasn't taken me out for dinner, or for a movie, or just ...
A. 26 December 2007: Thank you so much for answering my question...especially peoriaman...
I know you are right deep down...I don't think I am treated the way I deserve,and although I'm not perfect, I think I've been a fun, loving and faithful partner to him for 3 ye... (read in full...)
How do I get him to realise his role in killing the passion in our relationship??
Q. My boyfriend of 3 years complains that I am not passionate in bed anymore and I don't initiate sex. I thought about it for awhile and I realised that while I give a lot, I don't get a lot. He hasn't taken me out for dinner, or for a movie, or just ...
A. 26 December 2007: yes Peoriaman..I totally agree that sometimes we want something so bad that our minds are clouded over as to how easily we can get it. I am in that state of things. To clarify a few things - we have had a great sex life for all the time we hav... (read in full...)
How do I get him to realise his role in killing the passion in our relationship??
Q. My boyfriend of 3 years complains that I am not passionate in bed anymore and I don't initiate sex. I thought about it for awhile and I realised that while I give a lot, I don't get a lot. He hasn't taken me out for dinner, or for a movie, or just ...
A. 25 December 2007:
And what I meant by me "giving a lot" is that I am still sexually satisfying him while I have been unstimulated and unsatisfied for months. I did some reading and it turns our a woman's passion is directly related to her emotional state. I have b... (read in full...)
How do I get him to realise his role in killing the passion in our relationship??
Q. My boyfriend of 3 years complains that I am not passionate in bed anymore and I don't initiate sex. I thought about it for awhile and I realised that while I give a lot, I don't get a lot. He hasn't taken me out for dinner, or for a movie, or just ...
A. 25 December 2007: Yes I totally agree with what you say about how we comunicate this because we have had communication issues with several other problems we've run into.
The irony is that actually I'm the one paying bills and running home (I live on my own), an... (read in full...)
We have verbally abusive fights that spiral into rage and tears. Can we learn how to fight and how to negociate? How??
Q. Hi, I'm a woman who is very much in love with my boyfriend of 3 years. He loves me very much too and we have become entangled in a deep, intense, but complicated relationship. I say complicated because there are extreme highs and extreme lo...
A. 24 December 2007: Yes, I agree I could definately be a better listener. And although he listens I don't feel he internalises it and turns it into positive change. We end up having a discussion but not then making a plan to make things better. It's more just like ... (read in full...)
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