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I cannot stop this horrible feeling that he only wants me for sex.

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year and we both come from a strict religion where dating and sex outside of marriage is forbidden. My siblings and his know that we are seeing each other and so do our friends but I haven't met his and ...

A.   5 May 2011: Being a guy myself, I know what goes on in a guy's head. He's using you for sex. Plain and simple. Try refusing when he wants to see you sometime and you'll notice how insistent he'll be and might even get real angry. 110% sign that he's using you ... (read in full...)

Do you think this could be the start of the end of our relationship?

Q.   my partners mum passed away yesterday morning. I met him at the hospital to comfort him, went back to his brothers house after- put my arm around him on the couch but when we got home he told me to save it for when we're alone(he usually doe...

A.   8 April 2011: This is not the end of your relationship. His mom died and and he's grieving. Let him. He'll come back to you when he feels right. Don't try to push him or confront him even in the slightest because that would be a complete disaster. Him not letting ... (read in full...)

Do I have to choose between my boyfriend and family?

Q.   Ok, basically...I am feeling like I have to choose between my boyfriend of a year and my family. I have always been reallyyyy close to my family - my parents and my 3 siblings. My siblings know me as I am but I suppose I've always hidden a lot about ...

A.   3 November 2010: Messed up? Messed up is how he is trying to control you like a puppet. It seems to me that he has no idea what family is all about considering his apparent lack of affinity with his own. Man this guy is starting to piss me off! Lets see the ... (read in full...)

Do I have to choose between my boyfriend and family?

Q.   Ok, basically...I am feeling like I have to choose between my boyfriend of a year and my family. I have always been reallyyyy close to my family - my parents and my 3 siblings. My siblings know me as I am but I suppose I've always hidden a lot about ...

A.   2 November 2010: Your boyfriend is in the wrong here. Its ok to be disappointed that your family did not invite him but he shouldn't complain about it like this to you. He should keep in mind that he is your boyfriend, not your husband that your family will also ... (read in full...)

Why does my boyfriend not want oral sex?

Q.   Do guys love oral sex? Why does my bf does not want me to give him oral? we never did it but am really looking forward to it...

A.   2 November 2010: Not all guys but some, when they really really respect a girl, they don't allow the her to give them blowjobs. Maybe he is one of them. You should consider yourself lucky if thats the case. ... (read in full...)

23 year old virgin......is it too late for me?

Q.   Is it too late for me being a 23 year old virgin given that I'm finishing university in a few months? Because I'm in my final year of university, it is expected of me that I should have by now slept with at least one woman unless I'm celibate...

A.   2 November 2010: You are normal. Don't worry about it. I'm 21 at still virgin and plan on waiting till marriage. My father and mother lost it when they got married at 35 and 30 respectively. Guess its a family thing lol.... (read in full...)

How do you know what to choose...love of your life or great career opportunity?

Q.   How do you know when to choose a great career opportunity over the love of your life, or choose your love over the career opportunity?...

A.   2 November 2010: If he's truly the love of your life then you have nothing to worry about. Go for your big career opportunity and if he really is what you say he is, then he'll support you all the way through. He wouldn't make you chose.... (read in full...)

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