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How do I change the impact my parent's (especially my mother) behaviour has on me?

Q.   My problem is my mother. I have reduced contact with my parents (I phone them twice a month and see them twice a year) because they regularly upset me with undermining comments. They have given me 'advice' (bullied or manipulated me) which has ...

A.   6 October 2016: I also want to add that the man you were dating is not right for doing that it is not YOUR fault- you seem like an honest genuine woman - any man that walks away from that is a coward - listen to me a COWARD - why are you okay to accept the fact ... (read in full...)

How do I change the impact my parent's (especially my mother) behaviour has on me?

Q.   My problem is my mother. I have reduced contact with my parents (I phone them twice a month and see them twice a year) because they regularly upset me with undermining comments. They have given me 'advice' (bullied or manipulated me) which has ...

A.   6 October 2016: I am a thirty year old woman and I believe that I gave the same exact issues that you face- my parents are way to judjemental - manipulative - and have cause me to make and continue making the wrong decisions- their bad habits have influenced my ... (read in full...)

Is this marriage worth saving? 11 years together, married eight years

Q.   When I met my husband I fell madly in love with him, I was still a Virgin he was my first love. Life was good.....two years later I realized my husband LOVES attention from females, we fought and fought about it so he called me names..... I'm j...

A.   21 August 2016: Unfortunately this man - your husband - the man you think you love is trying to take advantage of you and YOUR EMOTIONS - first of all you have this man way too many chances - I was in a relationship with a man like this for 6 years and there comes ... (read in full...)

When I asked for what I need and in response he broke up with me. How do I get over this?

Q.   My bf broke with me unexpectedly Last week we were texting and after a couple of months of being in a relationship and me doing everything he wants The second I asked for some one on one time he had the epiphany that we don't see things eye t...

A.   10 June 2016: Thank you for the kind words - I am lost because there was no closure or reason and k feel defeated on top of that what seemed like a nice guy doesn't even have the audacity to give me my clothes back- I know I won't hear from him but it's hard ... (read in full...)

Do I wait for the new guy to make up his mind? or go back to Mr Wrong?

Q.   So, my (verbally abusive) boyfriend of 2 years and I finally called it off. A few months later, I reconnect with and re-fall for this brilliant, kind, handsome guy who I used to be *very friendly* with in high school. Happy ending? Nope! He decides ...

A.   10 June 2016: Sadly you pick no one but yourself - I've learned and am learning life is too short to wait around for a man ... (read in full...)

Can anyone understand why I am so distressed about my husband masturbating to porn when I'm at work or when I'm asleep beside him?

Q.   Hi A couple of months ago I discovered that my husband masturbates to porn while I am asleep or while I am not at home or working late. Our sex life is average, we have it at least 1-2 times per week, but I am always the one initiating i...

A.   8 June 2016: Hi I hope this helps I have had an ex and known men to watch porn so sometimes it's not as a big deal as we women make it to be- sometimes men are tired and they just take care of themselves quickly and don't want to put much effort into it ... (read in full...)

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