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I don't know what to say to my gf over the phone, please help.

Q.   I need help and pretty fast, I need help to be able to talk on the phone to my girlfriend cause to be honest I suck, near the 1 hr 50 mark it gets boring cause I don't have a clue what to say, and it usually goes on that long, 1. because she has soo ...

A.   26 July 2011: yeah I know it is quite a long time to be on the phone, but since we don't see each other often I quite like to hear her voice more :), called me a loved up sap. Yeah I do listen intently I always do, never a time when my focus is on something else ... (read in full...)

I don't know what to say to my gf over the phone, please help.

Q.   I need help and pretty fast, I need help to be able to talk on the phone to my girlfriend cause to be honest I suck, near the 1 hr 50 mark it gets boring cause I don't have a clue what to say, and it usually goes on that long, 1. because she has soo ...

A.   23 July 2011: well we are in a long distance relationship so we don't get to see each other much, about once every two-three weeks :( so I love to hear her voice as much as possible, that is why I need help in this matter :/, and yess she is most definitely the ... (read in full...)

Is there a way to keep him from orgasming too quickly?

Q.   Dear readers, I'm in search of any thoughts, opinions or even similar experiences. I have a "bedroom" question. My boyfriend and i have been having some minor issues in the bedroom. First off let me say this is the man i want to spend the rest of ...

A.   23 July 2011: I actually had this problem myself, not too long ago, there are ways of lasting longer, is this for him or you? cause if it is for him then tell him to control his breathing, I had to try and find a way to do this because I always kept letting go ... (read in full...)

Ladies: Any consequences of using whipped cream down there during foreplay??

Q.   ok this is a really, really freaky and albeit personal question, well me and my girlfriend want to spice up our love life, by adding sexual foods to our love life, the question I want to ask is well the food we want to add is whipped cream, from the ...

A.   23 July 2011: ahh I wish I got your message first then Nine cause that is invaluable knowledge right there, so the best thing to do is to get non sugar whipped cream? and if so where about's would you get that sort of thing? but thank you very much for that, I ... (read in full...)

Ladies: Any consequences of using whipped cream down there during foreplay??

Q.   ok this is a really, really freaky and albeit personal question, well me and my girlfriend want to spice up our love life, by adding sexual foods to our love life, the question I want to ask is well the food we want to add is whipped cream, from the ...

A.   23 July 2011: thank you both sincerely for the advice you have given, and to answer your question Chigirl, we are not lactose intolerant but thanks for consideration, and messy is what we want to be honest :), and as for the smell I can deal with it I love the ... (read in full...)

Any tips for my first meeting with my online boyfriend?

Q.   I am taking all the precautions, being safe, public place, telling my friends etc etc. My question is, is it normal to be so unsure of everything? I like him a lot, but I feel nervous, that he wont like me at all, that maybe we aren't meant to ...

A.   23 July 2011: Hey, I know how you feel so don't worry, I met my current girlfriend online, and met 2 months after we first started talking and we just clicked, how long have you two been talking for online? and for the nothing to talk about well that happened to ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend says I'm too emotional, and I'm worried if I don't change she's going to leave me! How can I get a handle on this?

Q.   Well this is a kind of weird one I guess, it affects me a lot actually, and I want to know how to improve on it. My girlfriend said to me a while ago that I am too emotional and she doesn't like that, and I can't help but think if I don't change t...

A.   12 July 2011: ahh fair enough, I haven't been on this that long, I first signed up about 4 months ago :), and I have to say, I won't go anywhere else for advice, cause the people on here, are without a doubt better than anywhere else I can go for advice and the ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend says I'm too emotional, and I'm worried if I don't change she's going to leave me! How can I get a handle on this?

Q.   Well this is a kind of weird one I guess, it affects me a lot actually, and I want to know how to improve on it. My girlfriend said to me a while ago that I am too emotional and she doesn't like that, and I can't help but think if I don't change t...

A.   11 July 2011: wow, that was quite in-depth, thank you TasteofIndia, for that and I will memorize that awesome advice, the thing is I know she wouldn't leave me for it, that I am certain of :), just some things I am too emotional about like if I see her crying ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend says I'm too emotional, and I'm worried if I don't change she's going to leave me! How can I get a handle on this?

Q.   Well this is a kind of weird one I guess, it affects me a lot actually, and I want to know how to improve on it. My girlfriend said to me a while ago that I am too emotional and she doesn't like that, and I can't help but think if I don't change t...

A.   11 July 2011: thanks :D, I really appreciate that :D, and I believe that she is the one for me, but I don't think she will leave me for being too emotional, I just wanted to see if I could calm that down, thank you I won't think about it much, and yes this helps ... (read in full...)

Is there something wrong with me? Is this erectile dysfunction?

Q.   Right this is a kind of weird one tbh, I don't know if it is a form of erectile dysfunction or just thinking sub-consciously, which may haven't really read much into it tbh, be the same thing I ha, but whenever me and my girlfriend are kissing ...

A.   4 July 2011: I still find that weird cause we have had sex a lot, but maybe I still feel like I need to be the best she has had every time, because she has been with quite a few others before me, it still could be performance anxiety, which sucks if it is, I ... (read in full...)

I only last seconds during sex!

Q.   I am confused, when my girlfriend gives me a hand-job I can last up to 25 minutes, but when we have sex I only last a few seconds, is there anything I am doing wrong or any help I can get...

A.   21 March 2011: so in relation to that question, that would come under PE wouldn't it?... (read in full...)

I only last seconds during sex!

Q.   I am confused, when my girlfriend gives me a hand-job I can last up to 25 minutes, but when we have sex I only last a few seconds, is there anything I am doing wrong or any help I can get...

A.   16 March 2011: well to answer the anon male reader, I really don't know the difference tbh the first time we had sex together was when were drunk, and I have only had sex with her twice and both were with a condom so i am still learning about sex with experiances ... (read in full...)

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