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I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!

Q.   HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...

A.   5 November 2009: Thanx for the info guys! I have been weirded out by this whole thing for over a month now even though we have had THE TALK many times since and he swears he NEVER acted upon any of those THRILL EMAILS/TEXTS I found! He said he likes the shemale ... (read in full...)

I found a letter to a student and barely 18 porn in my fiance's closet!

Q.   I have moved in and become engaged to a man who is a high school teacher at a small high school. Recently I was cleaning out a closet for my stuff and found a briefcase. I looked in a briefcase and found various porn and some paperwork. In the ...

A.   5 November 2009: Sweetie, u need to confront him!! This happened to me over a month ago and it took me a week to finally say something, I was so scared but I needed to hear it from him..mine admitted to it and said he had a problem before we met...thing is every ... (read in full...)

I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!

Q.   HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...

A.   5 November 2009: So what does it mean if a man says he is a FEM BOTTOM and to whom is he saying this? (is this lingo only used by LBGT) Thanx Guys :)... (read in full...)

I don't feel I cheated, but I was awkwardly busted. Do I explain the situation to him?

Q.   Thanks so much in advance for your insight(s). After years of quick flings, NSAs and not-quite-rights, (I'm 47) I all but shut down my sexual activity and adpoted a "been there done that" mentality, I'm recently re-inspired. I believe that ...

A.   30 October 2009: Can you please tell me more about your feelings and how long you have been online doing these things and if you are scared bcause you think u met the right one and doing this to comfort you!!!!!!!!IM SO CONFUSED!!!! I want to know how your minds ... (read in full...)

I don't feel I cheated, but I was awkwardly busted. Do I explain the situation to him?

Q.   Thanks so much in advance for your insight(s). After years of quick flings, NSAs and not-quite-rights, (I'm 47) I all but shut down my sexual activity and adpoted a "been there done that" mentality, I'm recently re-inspired. I believe that ...

A.   30 October 2009: Read my post..OMG..am going thru similar thing but I must say it pisses me off that you guys do shit like that (compulsions) and dont take into consideration how it will affect your mate!! Mine tells me he does it for THRILLS but I cant help wonder ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is accusing me of being unfaithful when I've done nothing wrong...How many accusations should I put up with?

Q.   Hi everyone, I've been dating a girl for a little over a month now. She has never been in anything you could call a "serious relationship" before, so the whole thing is new to her. She has been with some nasty guys in the past, so she has some tru...

A.   30 October 2009: Andy first let me say If you really cared about her you would take into consideration her feelings!!! Let me tell you about us women....A fact might be a fact when given BUT emotions are still very REAL and it is going to take a lot of reasurring ... (read in full...)

I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!

Q.   HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...

A.   30 October 2009: Hey Sugarbear..I have to laugh because I actually did that!! When I first confronted him last month I told him after I found the porn sites I started having him followed and he said "well I guess you know then what I been up to and it hasnt been ... (read in full...)

I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!

Q.   HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...

A.   29 October 2009: I must add that I am the dominant one in our relationship and our sex life is AWESOME!! We role play alot and Im ok with that BUT I am concerned because alot of the porn was GAY porn and shemales!! Just concerned that he wants to be with a man but ... (read in full...)

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