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My childhood sweetheart wants to reconnect but never mentioned his fiance to me!

Q.   I recently reconnected with my high school sweetheart after not tlkn or seeing each other for 9 years. We live on opposite sides of the country. We have talked about getting back together. I found out he has a fiance. He didn't tell me about her ...

A.   2 June 2013: Being engaged isn't being married (you don't have the legal issues), but it's a big commitment. This man pledged himself to someone else. A man who could treat his fiancee in this manner is not a person you want in your life. Be thankful that ... (read in full...)

His ex keeps in touch. Should I be worried that my Bf sends texts to his ex sometimes?

Q.   I saw a simple "hi, just dropping you a text to see how you're keeping" text on my boyfriends phone. We had been talking previously the day before about knowing phone numbers by heart and he mentioned a couple of his exes in his list! There's one ...

A.   2 June 2013: Personally, I don't think it's okay to keep in touch with exes. Many people disagree, but it sounds that you're like me. When we first started dating, my partner was still friends with most of his exes. I told him how uncomfortable I was with ... (read in full...)

I'm not having sex till I get married. Why do so many friends criticise me for this?

Q.   I'm a girl, at university and I've decided I'm not having sex till I get married. I'm Christian, but that's actually not the reason why - I'm really liberal and fully in support of gay marriage/pro-choice etc. It's because sex means a lot to me ...

A.   2 June 2013: I'm agnostic, but didn't have sex until my mid-twenties for very similar reasons. I wanted to wait for a special situation and I did. I don't regret waiting at all (sorta, I'll explain below). I can see both perspectives at this point (I'm in my ... (read in full...)

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