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Hi I am a trained counsellor, but only in certain areas. My experience is with self harmers, depression, BPD, relationship counselling, grief and bereavement, bringing up children and teenagers. This is a great site, I'm trying my hand at answering questions outside my normal work, so if you think my answers are rubbish, you may well be right, but I will do my best to answer honestly and sincerely, without being morally judgemental. Ralph

Brain wants sex.... Body doesn't?

Q.   I tried to google it, but could only find information on the opposite... So now I'll just ask you guys and hope I figure this out. I've noticed that recently I've been thinking a lot about sex, and I can't wait till I can see my boyfriend (We ...

A.   10 April 2013: I think the problem here is that the the routine of time and day for having sex is ruining the spontaneity of making love. I'm sure when you feel aroused it just happens, you don't, for instance decide that next Wednesday after work at 6pm I'm ... (read in full...)

After 4 years I don't feel secure in this relationship. what should I do?

Q.   Dear Cupid My bf of 4 years never really appreciates me for anything i do for him. Never compliments me, always expects me to compliment him. Always holds back his love, if i ask him says that if he says how he feels about me or show in his acti...

A.   9 April 2013: This guy is not right for, if he was he would make you feel very valued. Your boyfriend has done nothing to make you feel secure in this relationship and it sounds like you are staying with him to maintain a routine. A loving relations should not be ... (read in full...)

Fingered, am I still a virgin?

Q.   Hi, I've been fingered by my boyfriend a few times and I don't know if I'm still a virgin or not.I'm scared that I might not be a virgin anymore.please help, am I still a virgin?...

A.   9 April 2013: You are still a Virgin an you have not had penetrative Sexual intercourse, and therefor a virgin. In terms of religious virginity if you did not bleed during your foreplay, then your hymen, which is a membranous fold of tissue that partly or ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend cyber GF is begining to worry me?

Q.   Hello everyone! I was having problems last year and came to this site and was very happy with the answers and advice I received, this really is a great site and I am happy to be back in some way haha. So my boyfriend and I are in a happy and long...

A.   9 April 2013: You are a very understanding young lady, How ever this flirting sounds like it could very easily get out of control. How would would you feel if they had cyber sex? or decided to meet up? Tell your boyfriend How you feel about this. Ask him how he ... (read in full...)

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