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He flirts with me ALL the time, but then other days doesn't want to talk to me. What does everyone think?

Q.   Alright, about a month ago I posted a ? on here about a guy that I am totally into. (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-acts-like-he-likes-me-but-always.html). Please read the first question because without knowing the whole story this new ...

A.   18 February 2011: I was pretty much in your shoes a few years ago, take it in your stride, don't do anything insane (just imagine somebody else re enacting what you want to do with this and then decide whether or not it to advance on his flirting) to be frank with ... (read in full...)

She likes me. How do I show her I like her too?

Q.   I have never been in a real relationship before and I know of a girl who likes me. This could be quite a real one but if I do get involved how do I show her that I still like her and that I dont push her away?...

A.   18 February 2011: simply by telling her, whether or not you want to do that in privacy or not its up to you, you could text, email, skype whatever, even inviting her out to the cinema or to grab something to eat, an important thing is don't over power her with your ... (read in full...)

I need help developing my 'gaydar'!

Q.   There's a guy that i really like at my college. the only problem is that i don't know his name or anything about him! i am really shy and find it hard to make eye contact, but have wanted to get to know him more for about a year, and i really want ...

A.   11 March 2009: ask the girl you both know stuff about him and then after a couple of days ask if you think he would be interested in you, if she doesnt know your gay its a big shot in the dark really, just go for it if your really interested, just pull him up in ... (read in full...)

Is it better to wait for pre-cum to appear before putting on the condom?

Q.   Is it better to wait for pre-cum to appear before putting on the condom? It takes me a long time to cum. Is this normal at my age?...

A.   26 November 2008: "pre-cum" still contains spearm as well is the big host for chlamidia, no matter how long it takes you to "cum" you should always have a condom for the unwanted nasties. i think it is quite normal i mean im 18 and i can control how long i can go o... (read in full...)

How can he tell me he likes me then blank me?

Q.   Ok guys, I need your help. The thing is, theres this guy I really really like. He told me he fancied me too a few weeks ago. He is this really confident guy as well. After he told me her fancied me we were really close and started talking more at ...

A.   26 November 2008: he doesn't seem shy, do what im going to do. confront him face to face (well with my guy anyway). it sounds like he may have someone else?... (read in full...)

Since we broke up, porn is doing nothing for me!

Q.   OK, this is a bit of a strange question. Whenever I'm not in a relationship, I masturbate/watch porn with a normal frequency (say something slightly less than daily). When I'm in a relationship that drops significantly (maybe weekly or even more ...

A.   22 November 2008: this has happened to me before. its just because you have so much on your mind right now, it will soon clear up. before i was told when you masturbate.. you sub consiously imagine someone you really like without even knowing it and the fact that you ... (read in full...)

Am I crazy for forgiving him for everything he did?????

Q.   hey this may sound crazy but i could really use ur help!!!!!!! a couple of years ago i was friends with this guy and then he told me he hated me and wished i was dead!!!!! now even more things have happened between us. Last night i ran into him and ...

A.   31 October 2008: well yes and no its up to you really if you think he is genuinly sorry for what he has done forgive him and maybe suggest talking about it?... (read in full...)

What did he mean by this 'spanking' message? Should I ask him about it?

Q.   I was talking to a very intimate friend (possibly was a bf pref) early this morning we were casually flirting and sending pictures over msn, and just normal casual stuff, then he sent me a message saying oh yes send me that picture and i'll spank ...

A.   28 September 2008: noooo ¬¬ he said it to me be accident and even said he sent it to the wrong person... (read in full...)

Are these the signs of pregnancy even though I used a condom?

Q.   okay, so im 14 and have only been sexually active for a couple of months. when i lost my virginity i didnt use contraception, but cameo on my period reguarly. (months later) although, the second person i was sexually active with used a condomn, i ...

A.   27 September 2008: possibly yes their could of been a few things wrong. the condom could of split, it could of been out of date, their could of been holes in the condom, its best to go to the doctors and see what they say, rather than asking us lot about it, good ... (read in full...)

I have not had my period for two months, what could be wrong? I'm 13.

Q.   I'm 13 years old, and have had my period since i was 11. I've never had sex before, but i haven't had my period for 2 months! What's wrong with me?...

A.   27 September 2008: you just skipped a period not uncommon my best friend does dancing and various sports like this prolonge it she had her first one fine... but never had her second one for atleast a year ... (read in full...)

Are there exercises I can do to make my penis larger?

Q.   Why Is My Penis So Small At Age 13 is this normal . if any suggestions please tell how to get or make it bigger by just exercises...

A.   25 June 2008: do what we all did. DEAL with it, you arent fully developed yet until 16-20 time, give it a bit longer... (read in full...)

Do I act on these feelings for a male friend?

Q.   I self-identify as straight because i have sexual feelings for girls and am repulsed be the idea of anal/oral/kissing a guy; however, I've been having sexual feelings for my MALE best friend (wanting to rub cocks/jack him off). Could this be ...

A.   23 June 2008: :|... dont listen to that! ur a teenager, its what we do best, EXPERIMENT lol but dont go too far or u could ruin your friendship... (read in full...)

Speed dating. I have two days to prepare - so tell me how I can make a woman want to make love to me in 6 minutes?

Q.   Hey guys and gals. I'm single recently divorced and looking at new dating options…ways to meet others. And there's a lot of new ways that involve internet dating...too many to mention. But I was looking at this new thing called speed dating (new...

A.   21 June 2008: all i can say for this is, stay calm and relaxed when u enter the room, people can sense your tension. -be funny -be kind -dont big yourself up -ask about her lifestyle e.g. she likes the gym, you NOW like the gym too. -never say anything t... (read in full...)

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