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G/f lied to me and was used as a sex toy for 2 years

Q.   When I met my girlfriend, she told me she hadn't had a boyfriend in 4 years. While "technically," this was true, it turns out she had had a "casual relationship" with a man for two years. And she continued having sex with him for a short time even ...

A.   11 September 2010: Thanks again for your response. But do the people who think that she did nothing wrong... really think it's okay to have sex with someone for 2 years - and feel nothing. To me it's shocking. And I was stunned that she told me - I didn't tell you ... (read in full...)

G/f lied to me and was used as a sex toy for 2 years

Q.   When I met my girlfriend, she told me she hadn't had a boyfriend in 4 years. While "technically," this was true, it turns out she had had a "casual relationship" with a man for two years. And she continued having sex with him for a short time even ...

A.   10 September 2010: Thanks again for your thoughtful responses. It's interesting that many people try to say that no emotions are involved in these "f-buddy" relationships. I think those people are mistaken. Few people can fully make themselves devoid of emotion when ... (read in full...)

G/f lied to me and was used as a sex toy for 2 years

Q.   When I met my girlfriend, she told me she hadn't had a boyfriend in 4 years. While "technically," this was true, it turns out she had had a "casual relationship" with a man for two years. And she continued having sex with him for a short time even ...

A.   10 September 2010: In almost everything we do in life - our past matters. When we go for a job; potential employers want to know where we worked before and where we went to school. When you rent an apartment, potential landlords want to know you're rental history... ... (read in full...)

G/f lied to me and was used as a sex toy for 2 years

Q.   When I met my girlfriend, she told me she hadn't had a boyfriend in 4 years. While "technically," this was true, it turns out she had had a "casual relationship" with a man for two years. And she continued having sex with him for a short time even ...

A.   9 September 2010: Thanks again for your responses. But the fact is that" sex and the city" mentality that some women have today - is fine for a guy who's just looking to get laid. But when your looking for a real relationship, guys don't want women who slept with men ... (read in full...)

G/f lied to me and was used as a sex toy for 2 years

Q.   When I met my girlfriend, she told me she hadn't had a boyfriend in 4 years. While "technically," this was true, it turns out she had had a "casual relationship" with a man for two years. And she continued having sex with him for a short time even ...

A.   9 September 2010: Thanks again for your responses. But the fact is that" sex and the city" mentality that some women have today - is fine for a guy who's just looking to get laid. But when your looking for a real relationship, guys don't want women who slept with men ... (read in full...)

Would you have a problem if boyfriend was still in touch with a Fbuddy?

Q.   OK, just a simple question. If your boyfriend stayed in touch with a girl while seeing you, who you know used to be a "f*** buddy" would you be concerned. I mean, even if he told you they were just friends etc... would you have a problem with him ...

A.   9 September 2010: "Just Friends" is BS. In nearly all male/female friendships somebody wants to get into somebody's pants. And the fact that they were F-buddies in the past proves the point. Tell him it's her or you - and that'll decide it once and for all.... (read in full...)

Should I let him be part of my child's life?

Q.   Well a few months ago my boyfriend and I were living together, happy relationship, and we find out that we're having a baby. Everything seemed to be going good (or so I thought). Then when I was 5 months pregnant I find out he had been cheating on ...

A.   9 September 2010: It isn't up to mom to decide whether dads can in their child's life. He has just as much right to see his child as much as you do - fifty percent of the time since you're apart. That's the general answer. But specifically in your case since he ... (read in full...)

G/f lied to me and was used as a sex toy for 2 years

Q.   When I met my girlfriend, she told me she hadn't had a boyfriend in 4 years. While "technically," this was true, it turns out she had had a "casual relationship" with a man for two years. And she continued having sex with him for a short time even ...

A.   9 September 2010: Thanks for your responses. I just think a woman who have sex for years without loving the person - or even being in a relationship with them - is a slut. And, the truth be told, most men feel this way. There are girls you have sex with... and ... (read in full...)

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