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10 yrs of marriage, two small children, now he says he's in love with a woman at work!!!

Q.   My husband of 10 years says he now loves a woman he works with. He feels so ashamed but doesn't know whether he loves me or not. We have 2 children age 4 and 7 weeks. I'm torn apart...what to do?...

A.   16 April 2008: You need to let him go. I know that might sound harsh but it is the truth. Women in general become comfortable in relationships and do not want to start over, so they do whatever it takes to continue the relationship even if it is not the best ... (read in full...)

He has jokinly told his wife (who doesn't wish to have children) he will have them with or without her!! He also said he'd leave her if I were to fall pregnant?! Any ideas?

Q.   i have only recently started dating a married man i met in a social circle of friends at a sporting event . we have so much in common and were attracted to each other instantly ... a week after our meet he traveled over to see me and stayed the ...

A.   16 April 2008: I also am a single mother with two children. The way I became pregnant is my children's father said he wanted to have kids with me because his girlfriend could not have any. he also said he would leave her. He never left. She ended up leaving ... (read in full...)

Should I cut off my cheating ex boyfriend from my kids? He broke my heart in pieces!

Q.   I met this guy in 2004. He already had a girlfriend but said that he really did not want to be with her. I never expected anything to come from this relationship and when I was ready to stop communicating with him he kept calling and harrasing. ...

A.   14 April 2008: I appreciate the responses I received from all parties but there are some things I would like to address. It was mentioned that I was no better then my children's father. That is not true. I am better than him because I take care of my children ... (read in full...)

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