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These rides to work are really pissing me off!

Q.   My husband and I have been married for 21 years. He has started a new job and is giving a female co-worker a ride to and from work. He picks her and her kids up in the am and takes the kids to daycare. Then after work around 3:30 he hangs out ...

A.   30 October 2008: Your alarm bells seem justified. It sounds like rules need to be introduced into this situation. If he refuses to take your concerns seriously you might express them, politely, to her. ... (read in full...)

My wife can't get over my past...

Q.   Me and my wife are having a hard time she cant get over my past. Now it seems that every time it seems that we are getting better she just goes back to my past. I admit that before i met her i was out of control I'm in the army and this has been the ...

A.   30 October 2008: Reassure her that you are no longer the person she resents - you changed because she met your needs. Remind her that you were sowing your wild oats and not cheating on her as she wasn't around. Agree not to use blame cards as they never help. If ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend cheated, and I'm the one who ends up apologising for my jealousy! No more. Advice?

Q.   boyfriend cheated on me in the past twice and begged me for his forgiveness, telling me how much he love me an all that. So i did because i do love him back. But now weve had problems with trust since then and he wanted us to have some time apart. ...

A.   30 October 2008: You are setting a precedent for his future behaviour. He'll cheat again because he got away with it. Take back the power in this relationship, demand an apology and make it clear you only forgive once. Then forgive and move on. You risk losing ... (read in full...)

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