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To women who have cheated: Are these behaviour patterns true? Can she be excited to go out with me again?

Q.   Hello, I'm a 47 year old probably boring husband who is faithful and yet I think my wife is having an affair. I'm trying to get my hands around what's going on in her psyche so I can figure out what to do if anything. I've read some articles on...

A.   3 November 2008: Thanks, as a matter of fact we are planning on watching that together when I visit the Thanksgiving. I'm not totally giving up, but then I'm scared about being optimistic. I'll just do my best and let the cards fall as they may.... (read in full...)

To women who have cheated: Are these behaviour patterns true? Can she be excited to go out with me again?

Q.   Hello, I'm a 47 year old probably boring husband who is faithful and yet I think my wife is having an affair. I'm trying to get my hands around what's going on in her psyche so I can figure out what to do if anything. I've read some articles on...

A.   3 November 2008: "I was at stage 3 too" I just reread your response again. It was that good. I did pull back. However, she just plain didn't even call or anything. I'm scared there's too much pain, guilt, and blame for this to get better. I guess I'll see. ... (read in full...)

To women who have cheated: Are these behaviour patterns true? Can she be excited to go out with me again?

Q.   Hello, I'm a 47 year old probably boring husband who is faithful and yet I think my wife is having an affair. I'm trying to get my hands around what's going on in her psyche so I can figure out what to do if anything. I've read some articles on...

A.   3 November 2008: Bottom replyer: I got the book went straight to the Add Sizzle section and found I've already tried that. The problem was when I tried to make a date with her she didn't want to go out with me. She was too busy, too tired etc etc. Thanks for the ... (read in full...)

I'm not LIVING my life, I'm just putting up with it.

Q.   I am at this site because I am truly at the end of my rope. This has gone on for so long that something has got to give, or I am literally going to go crazy. I badly need someone who will try to help me with advice and not judge me. My proble...

A.   3 November 2008: Well my advice to you is create a plan. Decide where you want to move too. Research how much it will take for the transportation, one months rent and food, possible jobs, support systems like friends or a church of the same domination etc. Write ... (read in full...)

Is there a good way to divorce so she doesn’t try to crush me? I’d like a nice smooth glide path out of this mess.

Q.   I’m a confused man age 47 and in the military. I’ve been married 21 years and dated my wife for six years before our marriage. I was scared of marriage when I dated her, but when she became pregnant I knew it was time. Our marriage started off ...

A.   2 November 2008: Well, I had a long productive talk on the phone with her. It was her birthday and so I called to wish her a happy birthday. She then wrote me a long email about what love is. Basically in it she stated that . . . well I'm going to paste the whole ... (read in full...)

Is there a good way to divorce so she doesn’t try to crush me? I’d like a nice smooth glide path out of this mess.

Q.   I’m a confused man age 47 and in the military. I’ve been married 21 years and dated my wife for six years before our marriage. I was scared of marriage when I dated her, but when she became pregnant I knew it was time. Our marriage started off ...

A.   1 November 2008: Thanks Anon and Fade, You're both right that I haven't made up my mind. I'm going through the entire spectrum of emotions. One day I'm going to divorce her!!! Next day maybe we can work things out. Next it's her fault, then mine, Etc. etc. ... (read in full...)

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