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Feel ugly and vulnerable about my body, probably because my ex. How do I get over this?

Q.   Hi, I had a question about where you should draw the line when it comes to telling your boyfriend things about yourself... My bf and I have been going out for about nine months, and I told him that I feel self-conscious about my body, and that I w...

A.   21 March 2006: Hi, I think the first step in feeling better about your body is realising that your ex's comments about your body, weren't made because you had an 'ugly' body as you say, it was about control, he felt scared that you would leave him and find som... (read in full...)

She only wanted a casual relationship, but I wasn't happy with that. Now I regret storming off...

Q.   I was seeing a girl from work for three months; nothing serious. Texting, meeting up a few times. It was her that initiated everything at first. She told me about a previous boyfriend that she was in love with two years ago cheated on her and brok...

A.   19 March 2006: My honest opinion (being someone that is in a similar situaton) is that this girl is testing you. You say her last boyfriend cheated on her so I think she might have some trust issues to work out. Making the comment about you meeting a nice girl ... (read in full...)

I'm 14 already and still have never had a boyfriend...

Q.   Please help! I'm a 14 year old girl, brown hair, slightly attractive, nice figure, killer personality and yet I've never had a bf. I always fancy someone but I'm far too shy to ask them out and I won't let my mates ask them out for me. This is ...

A.   19 March 2006: Hiya, You will find that it is 10 times harder for a boy to ask out a girl because they dont deal with thier emotions very well, they are terrified of rejection. If you like someone just go for it, it doesn't need to be walking up to them in ... (read in full...)

When I see the guy at work, he looks at me like a rabbit in the headlights! Why?

Q.   At work there is a guy who I shall call X. We have spoken to each other a couple of times in the past but he is quite shy. The problem is that every time I bump into him at work it catches him by surprise and he stops in his tracks and looks ...

A.   19 March 2006: I have had some experience with this in the past and there is a surefire way to find out if he does this in response to just you or all girls. Observe him for a few days interacting with other girls, does he also do this with them. If so, it will ... (read in full...)

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