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... Send *alli a private message | | | *alli's profile:Hi, I'm Calli.
I don't claim to be a relationship expert, but I'm often the person my friends come to when they have problems. They tell me I'm fairly level-headed, and they seem to appreciate my advice 'cuz they keep coming back ;)
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Why do I always burn after having sex?
Q. and no I am not burning/have any type of std, or any vaginal infection. it happened in the past and it always burned like some one put a lighter inside my vajayjay, and im scared to have sex with the new guy because it may happen again. what could ...
A. 19 February 2009: A couple of things come to mind...
Is there adequate lubrication? Certain medications, including birth-control pills, can cause vaginal dryness. Make sure that you prolong foreplay until you're well lubricated and, perhaps, use lube to ease the... (read in full...)
She wanted me to choke her during sex as she said it heightened her orgasm!!!!
Q. i am not bragging here but i do consider myself to know a bit about sex but a week ago i met a women who asked me to start choking her during sex this is... well very weird to me but i did it, anyway afterwards she said it hightens people's orgasm. ...
A. 10 May 2007: The practice is called erotic asphyxiation, while some consider it to be sensual and highly gratifying, it is seen as dangerous by others. Physically, as the body reaches a state of asphyxia more endorphins are produced causing a sense of increased ... (read in full...)
My friend is going through a hard time and I think my motives the other night were sexual! I don't want our friendship to be ruined! Help!
Q. I have a long term friend who has been going through a rough time lately (since November). His father is fatally ill, and my friend has been spending almost all his spare time at the hospital. I've been trying to do what I can to help, and to take ...
A. 4 May 2007: I appreciate your input. It's really not that I'm hoping anything will "happen" with him. If it does in the future...then that's the future. Right now, I'm really just concerned about the friendship. It's one of the most important of my life. We've ... (read in full...)
I have been having trouble finding her physically attractive. She's not terribly overweight, but she does have a fair stomach to her.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been going out for over a year, and have been involved a fair bit longer, and I can quite see myself spending a good many years with her. Lately, however, I have been having trouble finding her physically attractive. She's ...
A. 3 May 2007: Weight is always a sensitive issue, and I commend you on your sensitivity. I know this site (I have to admit, some of the terminology used is a bit cheesy) is about marriage, but maybe some of the info on it will help: ... (read in full...)
He keeps texting this other girl at work, we have been together 20 years and I don't want to lose him. How do I handle this?
Q. Hiya everyone!! i wrote on here for some advice a couple of months ago and it was really helpful and now im having a few problems again, about the same thing really. The problems started about 6 months ago when my boyfriend was ringing and texting a ...
A. 2 May 2007: I do agree with Irish about standing your ground. My suggestion to apologize was based on a desire to create an environment where the two of you might be able to talk productively. To me it would be one way to "shake this relationship up a bit up ... (read in full...)
I want sex constantly and have only gone without sex for two months the longest. What do I do?
Q. I am a 18 year old girl who keeps on getting in and out of relationships, when i am in the relationship i think that everything is great for a week maybe two and then i get BORED i dont know why this happens. I have been cheated on lots of times by ...
A. 2 May 2007: It sounds like you don't take much time to get to know the people you are in 'relationships' with before you start having sex with them. Relationships are about a lot more than just sex. Secondhand makes a good suggestion. You could try getting ... (read in full...)
How can I tell him I really can't wait?
Q. hi there, the guy im seeing or was seeing has said he needs us to be friends for the moment cos he is dealing with too much we have only been seeing each other for two months and i know he is being genuine because we have spoken since etc but the ...
A. 2 May 2007: He's told you what he needs: to be friends for now. Respect that, and don't pressure him or you'll drive him away. Part of really caring for someone is giving them what they need when they ask for it. Let him know that you're willing to give him the ... (read in full...)
He keeps texting this other girl at work, we have been together 20 years and I don't want to lose him. How do I handle this?
Q. Hiya everyone!! i wrote on here for some advice a couple of months ago and it was really helpful and now im having a few problems again, about the same thing really. The problems started about 6 months ago when my boyfriend was ringing and texting a ...
A. 2 May 2007: First, I have to be honest and say I can't condone your invading your boyfriend's privacy and going through his text messages. I would be furious if my husband did the same to me. Not because there is anything there that I don't want him to see, but ... (read in full...)
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