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Do I keep fighting or just move on?

Q.   Hi, I'm not sure what to do. Last week my b/f and I split after a year because the distance was too much. However I've been regretting it ever since but we both came to this decision for a reason. If I choose to fight for it then I know its going to ...

A.   21 June 2007: There is only so much time that you can spend fighting for it. Sometimes you get to a point where you still love each other, but you don't know how much longer you can go without things changing in one way or another. to be honest I think that the ... (read in full...)

He's broken my heart; how can I move on when I still love him?

Q.   hello i am a 22 y/o girl, over the past few days my bf of over a year has broken my heart, i feel very deeply hurt.. im a very very sensitive girl and i dont know what to do. he is of a different religion and i was studying that religion as i ...

A.   21 June 2007: Hi there honey. I split from my ex about 1 month ago now and I am still completely devestated by it. We both knew that it wasn't working and that we didn't have a future together (i want children, he doesn't) but we fell totally head over heels in ... (read in full...)

How do you know if/when it is right to get back together? Or is it natural to feel the need of wanting him back?

Q.   Hi I was dumped 3 or 4 weeks ago, I sort of agreed with my ex's decision - from my point of view I needed some space and I wasn't totally happy anyway. Now I feel some sense of wanting to get back together. I think compatability was good bet...

A.   18 June 2007: Hi I think to be honest you need to give yourself some more to realise if this is just the usual urge to get back togeher after you've split or whether you really think that she could both give it another shot. I have also split from my boyf... (read in full...)

I want my ex back but he doesn't answer my calls. Should I stop chasing him?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have been in a long term relationship for about 5 years now and me and my ex have broke up 3 weeks ago I have tried to be back with him I have wrote him 3 times and even called him but he doesn't answer my phone calls and I neve...

A.   12 June 2007: The best thing for you to do at the moment is the hardest one, and that is to stop chasing him! Beleive me I know how hard this is, but the sooner you do this, the sooner you will start to get your life back. It could be that he needs some space ... (read in full...)

I got on my boyfriend's PC, he was talking with this girl and they were saying that they liked each other and that I was a complication!!!

Q.   Hello. Recently i managed to hack into my boyfriends internet account and found him talking to this girl at work. They were saying that they liked each other and that I was a complication! Although you can see nothing actually happened. In Januar...

A.   1 June 2007: Whilst it may be hurting now, in the long run, you will be so much better off! Breaking up with someone even if they have hurt you is REALLY hard but you have so much to gain from not being with him. You just have to take each day as it comes and ... (read in full...)

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