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writes:hello i am a 22 y/o girl, over the past few days my bf of over a year has broken my heart, i feel very deeply hurt.. im a very very sensitive girl and i dont know what to do. he is of a different religion and i was studying that religion as i became curious. now he told me that he has been thinking about how to tell his parents, but he simply cant, he feels he cannot simply go against his entire family, he loves me, but obviously not enough to give up anything. i am afraid i wont know how to get over him, i am afraid i will never be able to move on. i feel i have made many mistakes in the relationship, i did too much for him and i let him take me for granted. his mind seems made up, i cant help having this feeling of hope that maybe one day he wil want me back, but i think i already know that wont happen, im a good person and i love deeply and in the same way get hurt just as much, any sort of advice regarding any aspect of losing someone u loved so much and would do anything for . would be appreciated... any tips on moving on, or ways of helping your heart heal, and tips on how to pick oneself up and kee moving forward.. please share with me anything you have to say, thankyou in advance.. D.A.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2007): i know how you feel i broke up with my bf almost 5 months ago and i am no closer to being over him now than i was then. Basically we live in a small town where rumours and crap like that got in the way..since then he has still told people that he stil wants me and loves me but its like he cant deal with the issues that broke us up to begin with.im 20 nad he's 21 so I kno we are stil young but i honestly feel like he is the one for me and my heart is breaking that we cannot seem to get back together, every time we see each other we just stare at each other and its like we know what each other are thinking.i never had such a connection with anyone but there has been so much hurt i dont know will we ever be able to get it together. Right now I'm just trying to take each day as it comes and have faith that the universe will bring us back together when the time is right. i just worry that i have lost him forever. So I know how you feel all i can say is if you are meant to be you will be..doesnt mean that it doesnt hurt like hell though..
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reader, Augustflower81  +, writes (21 June 2007):
 Time will heal your broken heart.
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reader, bumbelina +, writes (21 June 2007):
Hi there honey. I split from my ex about 1 month ago now and I am still completely devestated by it. We both knew that it wasn't working and that we didn't have a future together (i want children, he doesn't) but we fell totally head over heels in love. HOWEVER i know that you and I will go through it and fall in love again but it takes time. You need to look after yourself (mentally, emotionally and physically), give yourself time to let yourself totally feel what you feel and talk about the way you are feeling. It doesn't do you any good to bottle it up. Cry when you want to, shout when you want toand get all the feelings you have totally out of your system. AND then go out there and have fun!!!! That is what life is all about!
Take care xx
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (21 June 2007):
 hi
frankly speaking there is no easy way of moving past a broken relationship. what u need to do is to thank God you were able to love and to be loved unfortunately it was just for a while. find serenity in the fact that he was just not what you were looking for, believe me there is no happiness in getting involved with a man who cant protect you and stand up to his parents to save the love he had found. maybe its a good thing he was exposed so soon before u spent years and years building something he was not gonna have guts to fight for.
i hope u will find peace within you so that you can open your heart to other opportunities that awaits.
Jovial
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