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My cousin is going to blackmail me unless I do sexual things with her, and she's only 13!

Q.   help cupids! im in a really BAD situation. basically, my cousin is blackmailing me for not doing sexual things with her. let me explain. my cousin admitted to me she loves me (though previously, i think she just adored me and now i know its jus...

A.   17 March 2012: use a recorder secretly and tape a proof that you are innocent and that she is the one who is blackmailing you. once you have it deny her advances. If she still bugs you show her the proof you have. But remember to keep multiple copies of evidences. ... (read in full...)

I think my boyfriend looks at porn... I'm disgusted

Q.   I may well be over reacting, but i found a visited website address on my partners computer, he told me it was a pop up, but i dont think thats true, because he has had them blocked, as may people do. We have been together for 5 months, have a gr...

A.   28 January 2012: If you're looking for a man who doesn't fantasize about other women apart from yourself; either become a nun, date a castrati or turn lesbian. Your boyfriend might love you so much that he would be willing to give his life to save yours if given the ... (read in full...)

Are there any suggestions you guys have about getting to know someone you like a little better?

Q.   Are there any suggestions you guys have about getting to know someone you like a little better? me and my crush we are cool and we talk frequently but he seems to be in his own little world and is always on his phone listening to music or texting ...

A.   19 October 2011: Do something to grab his attention. It'll be up to you to be creative & decide what would work best with your guy. If he continues to remain oblivious to you... I'm sorry, but I would move on to someone more mature & aware of your presence!... (read in full...)

He's always so busy!!!

Q.   My guy is a workaholic. We both go to a prestigious university so there is always a lot of schoolwork and he is an engineering major so his workload is heavier than mine. Not only that, he is involved in a bunch of organizations and is a member of ...

A.   18 October 2011: Sounds like he has a problem with over-achieving and perfectionism. If I were you I'd be firm with him and make it clear that he's got to find time for you and get his priorities in balance.... (read in full...)

I think he likes me but he hasn't made a move

Q.   Hey folks, There's a guy at work who I strongly suspect likes me a lot. He's always really helpful to me and almost always has a smile for me whenever our gazes happen to meet. He tends to single me out whenever he has the chance and even though ...

A.   17 October 2011: Does he know for a fact you're single? Also... maybe he just doesn't feel comfortable making that move at work. Your situation here reminds me of the girl I really like at work!!... (read in full...)

Missed two periods. Ladies, help!

Q.   heya. well im sorta of freaked out at the moment. Im 16, a virgin and havnt gotten my period for two cycles, its suppose to have come this week but it hasnt. Ive been having the regular pms things...extreme hunger, emotional, lack of hunger in other ...

A.   20 May 2009: Im not a girl but i have sister go to the doctor tell them you havent had any sexuall experience and that you havent got your period its either high amounts of stress or you have a blood clog ... (read in full...)

Is it a good idea to stay with her even though she cheats or should I move on?

Q.   i have a question,,i have a girl friend who ive known for 11 months and i found out she had been doing any guy she could get her mouth on ..or in her vigina.. this was before me..is it a good idea to stay with her, or let her go.. she is a n...

A.   20 May 2009: ok now this is a easy answer LEAVE HER ASS!! she isnt worth it there way hotter girls then her it isnt worth catching a STD... (read in full...)

B/f 11 years older than me is abusive and I don't know how to get out of this relationship!

Q.   First off, I'm 15 going on 16 in a couple of days; my boyfriend is ELEVEN years older than me. We've been together for 7 months and I do really like him, but every single month I've tried to end it because he's made me feel like sh*t, I have rea...

A.   20 May 2009: ok first of all why the hell are you going out with a guy 11 years older then you this is what you have to do 1.Tell Your Parents 2.Break up(if he tells you hes ganna hurt you go to the cops 3.Tell the cops he forced you to sex 4.get a restr... (read in full...)

Is my little sister attracted to me?

Q.   My little sister is 13 and I am 19. The last two times that I was hanging out with her in her room she says, "I'm horny". Not just once but on two different occasions. I just say like yeah me too... and blow it off. I'm starting to wonder if she has ...

A.   20 May 2009: Hmmm you arent a sicko or nothing its just that if you dont have a gf you wont have another girl in your life get a girlfriend hit it then watch how you wont even think about your little sister and that is kinda nasty your 19 and shes 13 you would ... (read in full...)

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