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I just had anal sex. Am I still a virgin?

Q.   Okay I know this is a stupid question but am im still a virgin? I mean...my boyfriend and I just did anal...and im wondering if im still a virgin. I'm kinda naive about that subject. Im sorry...

A.   10 April 2011: Hi Babe. I think that most folk would agree that it really doesn't matter that much 'what-went-where' whether vaginal, anal, or oral. Its much more how close and intimate you've been with a person that decides. Its a state of mind too, not a huge ... (read in full...)

My Dad and I get on very well. So what would be the reasons I am attracted to very old men 50 plus?

Q.   I'm an 18 year old girl and for as long as I can remember, I've always been attracted to older male celebrities, like men that are 50-68 years old. I have to force myself to find someone my age to be attracted to. I've even had a kind of crush on a ...

A.   10 April 2011: Having read the advice and comments here, I've little to add - except one thing. I'm 43 and I So Dearly Deeply Love my partner who's 19. The situation has its little issues sometimes, but on the whole we're So Happy. Wont work for everyone, but ... (read in full...)

Is our friendship pointless?

Q.   Okay, this is kind of long. I've been best friends with this guy since 8th grade. We've dated a few times in 9th grade, but we were both immature and whatnot. As time went on he had to move away, but I've stayed in the same place. I still had ...

A.   10 April 2011: Guess it depends on how much you care for him in an altruistic way, Hon. I mean would it harm his life if you acted on your feelings? Do you care enough to let him go? His partner may mean nothing to you, but she's a woman with feelings just like ... (read in full...)

Unhappy sex life ruining relationship!

Q.   Hello, Before this I never thought it would be such and issue. My boyfriend and I had been dating for a year and a half. Our sex life went from several times a week to like three times a month, and it is always me asking a being very upset. I...

A.   10 April 2011: Hon there are many ways to improve a sex-life, and I'd go on, but mostly its just plain common sense! We all know that there's a Honeymoon period when we all make like bunnies, but that inevitably wears off. One or other partner just seems to ... (read in full...)

I kicked him out because he watched too much porn, please advise.

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for a year now (we are both 30) and we moved in with each other at the end of November. I have been blissfully happy and not even thought about anyone else, I was ready marry this person and have children. I used to go ...

A.   10 April 2011: This is a big problem for you, Hon. The internet is there, its all around us and always will be. You cant restrict access to that, so thats something we have to live with. My first reaction was to say that its a fantasy thing, that its somethin... (read in full...)

Is there any way to make oral sex taste better for my boyfriend?

Q.   is there any way to make oral sex taste better for my boyfriend? he said he doesn't mind the taste but is there anything we can do to make it better because obviously you can get flavoured condoms for boys what about girls? Any help appreciated ...

A.   10 April 2011: Honey, you can buy flavoured lotions. Boots chemist have them - some by Durex, some others. They're mainly a lubricant but trust me, they serve your purpose perfectly! Just dont try Blueberry - it sucks. Hmmm, poor choice of words there! ... (read in full...)

Does anyone else have a fantasy about being watched while having sex?

Q.   I have these fantasies of another man and\or woman watching me and my boyfriend making love, is this nonsense or is this a turn on for you as well?...

A.   10 April 2011: Liking this isn't strange at all, Hon, most of us harbour fantasies and sometimes we can act on them too. Personally it gives me a great kick to be watched by strangers. You don't have to be an exhibitionist, and yo're Certainly not alone in the ... (read in full...)

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