do I cut her out of my life or try to be mature?
Q. How to let go in an unclear situation. I was in a relationship with an amazing young lady for a year and a half, I'm now 28 and she's 21. We had a wonderful time-lots of respect and love and freedom to express ourselves. We split up because she d...
A. 31 March 2006: Cutting contact is the only way to move on, plain and simple. If she has decided that she can't be in anything serious with you, then it's not a relationship worth pursuing, even as a friendship--because it doesn't sound like you will be getting ... (read in full...)
Older online woman who I'm falling for big time!
Q. hi, im 16 and met a 27 year old girl on the net i want to meet her but she wants to wait. we get on well and really like each other. we clicked the first time we spoke. we live far apart so that causes some problem like. i think im falling in lov...
A. 31 March 2006: This is a grown woman you're talking about. Don't you think that normal grown women would be more attracted to men who lived on their own, men who already know how to operate as adults? If she isn't, that means she's NOT NORMAL. If she feels like ... (read in full...)
Is my conern for her justified?
Q. I am wondering if I should be concerned about this. The other night I called my girlfriend and she was drunk. I talked to her and she happened to be very horny and was discussing what she wanted to do with me sexually. anyways we talked for a few ...
A. 31 March 2006: I think you're right to be concerned. She's probably also a bit freaked out, so when you approach her with your thoughts, do it very casually.
One thing, though, is that I've been blackout drunk before, and yet if something happens sexually with... (read in full...)
She turned ME down so now why is she so jealous all the time!?
Q. I have been friends with this girl for over 7 years we have dated before but nothing ever got very serious i was young and stupid to say the least we have always had a good relationship we are very much alike both only children both spoiled she even ...
A. 31 March 2006: Well, hon, I hate to tell ya... If you asked her to get together while she was single, and she gave you the ole "I don't want to ruin our friendship" excuse, that means she doesn't want to be with you in that way. No matter how long somebody... (read in full...)
Should I tell him about my foolin' around with my cousin?
Q. I need some help before i do something very stupid! now keep in mind i was young when i did this when i didn't really know what i was doing but yet not extremely young. My boyfriend thinks its good we tell each other all of our past well i did but ...
A. 31 March 2006: You are being too paranoid, and hooking up with other girls is not "nasty." It sounds like you are a bit homophobic and reacting really strongly to some incidents in your past. But, just to let you know, even really homophobic guys think that ... (read in full...)
She used to be a swallow!
Q. My g.f used to swallow after Oral sex. Now, she wont. She jumps up and runs to the bathroom and then i hear her spitting. I could understand if she never did that before. But SHE HAS!. ...
A. 31 March 2006: Yeah yeah yeah. What guys may not understand is that taking the cum in your mouth is fine, but the swallowing part makes a lot of us gag. And gagging is not a pleasant sensation. Personally, I swallow, because I feel I can sacrifice a bit of ... (read in full...)
We don't have sex. Is divorce the answer?
Q. my husband and I have been having marital problems. We have been to a counsellor but nothing has changed. We don't have sex. I think it's been 3 months now. He never wants it, and I think it's because he's afraid of not performing, which has ...
A. 31 March 2006: I think it's awesome that you're a woman with a natural, healthy appetite for sex. First off, I want to commend you on that. Second, I do agree that three months without sex feels like an eternity, but for many marriages, that's nothing. My own p... (read in full...)
I don't feel too fresh "down below" any more - any tips?
Q. I used to love foreplay and being eaten out and now i have a vaginal odor that makes me feel not in the mood. My doctor says dont douche and eat more yogurt. But nothing works and i don't feel fresh. Help! what will make the sometimes light fishy ...
A. 30 March 2006: Dear Subgrls, Well well well. It's true, none of us want to carry a vat of paella between our legs. It sounds like you do have bacterial vaginosis, which is a generally harmless (sometimes painful) ailment that does produce a fishy odor. Unfo... (read in full...)
I went to a party and can't remember much about it. I need help!
Q. im 16, and last weekend i went to a house party, and didnt think id drink a lot. the only problem is i can only remember arriving there, some guy taking me upstairs, and then my friends shaking me trying to keep me awake.when i got home i went to ...
A. 30 March 2006: Sweetie, I am so sorry this happened to you. You need to do the following things immediately: -call your local branch of planned parenthood. You'll be able to find the number here: http://plannedparenthood.org tell them what happened, and tell ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend likes to aggrevate me about my breasts, why does he do this?
Q. my boyfriend of almost 2 yrs. will make jokes about my breasts. saying they are little and all, but then when I try to ignore it he will make another joke, then it bothers me and he will apologize and say he is just joking and that my breasts are ...
A. 30 March 2006: Dear Beautimus, You have already done the mature thing and told your boyfriend that his constant jokes about your breast size are bothering you. If you would like to keep being mature (which I suggest), ask him how he would feel if you picked ou... (read in full...)
What is cum supposed to taste or smell like? How can you tell if it's normal or not?
Q. What is cum supposed to taste like? or smell like? whats right? and how would you know if something wasnt right with it?...
A. 30 March 2006: Baby-- don't worry too much about your cum making an impression. If a girl's at the point of tasting it, that means, she likes you, bro. Other things are much more important, such as, you know, saying interesting stuff and not shrieking when you ... (read in full...)
My husband wants me to do things that make me feel dirty, humiliated and miserable, what do I do?
Q. My husband thinks he is a good lover. He goes at it without any thought for me. Asks if I would like him do this and that which his previous girlfriend liked. He makes me feel dirty. Thinks touching the clitoris not licking is masterbation and ...
A. 30 March 2006: You are obviously very depressed and insecure. It sounds like your husband is the cause of both problems. Because he is the cause of your insecurity, you feel like the only thing you can hope for is that he suddenly do an about-face and start ... (read in full...)
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