Are we over, or will this break give him the chance he needs to sort himself out?
Q. My boyfriend of 10 months says he needs a break from me to sort out his own personal problems. He says he wants to regain the spark we had early in our relationship, and that a break from me will give him time to sort stuff out. I know I have been ...
A. 14 March 2006: I've never seen this 'time apart' thing work out the way you think. Oh you may get back together, but not sure how long. Give him his time, but give yourself time to. Move one, date, etc. If it is love, you will find your way back. If not, so much ... (read in full...)
Love my kids and love my partner, but I get nothing in return!
Q. Do I stay in a loveless relationship, when I have so much love and laughter to offer but can't because it is not wanted, as all my partner's energies go straight to our 3 children? I love my kids but feel left out. I try and fail terribly and ...
A. 14 March 2006: This is a tough situation. Yes you deserve love. On the other hand your kids deserve a father. You must struggle with your own desire of happiness and your commitment to your kids. Think of them first, and do what you think is best for them. In ... (read in full...)
I feel that a man needs a vent for peace of mind, my wife disagrees and pressured me to sell my beloved dirt-bike! Reasonable or not?
Q. Do I need a swift kick? Hello, I'd appreciate any wisdom that this community could share. I first realize that my issue is pretty small compared to many others, but I still want to do the right things in life. I am a 31-year-old business man wi...
A. 14 March 2006: Thanks to each of you for your feedback. I am at a loss on this one. I realize that I am against a brick wall on this one. I 'stood up to her' when I bought one last year. While it was great, the trouble it caused was regretful. I think that each of ... (read in full...)
My friend tells stories to try and win sympathy
Q. Well, I've got this 'friend' who really annoys me. She's always talking about how her brother beats her up, but she never has bruises and she smiles like it doesn't matter when she tells us, then she looks all sad and expects us to be sympathetic. ...
A. 11 March 2006: Your friend obviously has issues. If this is a long-term thing (not just a phase she's going through), then you have to evaluate your friendship. If the good outways the bad, then my advice is to grit your teeth. Listening to her stories may bring ... (read in full...)
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