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My wife doesn't enjoy sex, and I feel myself wanting other girls?

Q.   Hello there, I have a big problem. I have been married for almost 5 years already and I find myself so nice to my wife. I work far away from my family im a sailor and I only get to see my family 2 to 3 months and of course once I am home I want to ...

A.   23 April 2012: It's important that you address this before it gets out of hand. But you need to talk about it in a very calm and rational way. From a female's perspective I have gone off sex when I've been upset about things, depressed or under lots of stress. ... (read in full...)

If I confront him and I'm wrong I will look like a paranoid crazy woman, but I really need to know if my gut instinct is correct!

Q.   Last year I was ill and me and my partner moved to a new location. He was going back and forth between his old house when he was selling it and our new home. During my illness I got really out of shape and got the feeling he no longer desired me. ...

A.   4 December 2010: Thanks for all you answers, if he was seeing someone else it was a while ago. Of course he has denied it and I can't prove anything either way unfortunately. Maybe the fact that I brought it up means that if anything did happen he will know tha... (read in full...)

If I confront him and I'm wrong I will look like a paranoid crazy woman, but I really need to know if my gut instinct is correct!

Q.   Last year I was ill and me and my partner moved to a new location. He was going back and forth between his old house when he was selling it and our new home. During my illness I got really out of shape and got the feeling he no longer desired me. ...

A.   3 December 2010: Thanks all, I just asked him and he wasn't very happy about it, he told me he would never do that and that what I said was really hurtful. quite angry and asked me what I would do if he was half an hour late back from work - would I think he was ... (read in full...)

What can I do about my girlfriend's weight gain?

Q.   Hi Ive been with my partner over two years now, and over that time she seems to have gained a lot of weight. When we first met, she was a 14-16, curvy, but absoloutly fine. Since then, shes gone to a size 20. And is eating lots/ not doing...

A.   3 December 2010: You need to approach this in a very sensitive manner and as Aunty Em points out, overeating is often a sign of unhappiness. I she will need to address the reason for her overeating to lose the weight. The last thing you should do is tell her that... (read in full...)

What can I do about my girlfriend's weight gain?

Q.   Hi Ive been with my partner over two years now, and over that time she seems to have gained a lot of weight. When we first met, she was a 14-16, curvy, but absoloutly fine. Since then, shes gone to a size 20. And is eating lots/ not doing...

A.   3 December 2010: You need to approach this in a very sensitive manner and as Aunty Em points out, overeating is often a sign of unhappiness. I she will need to address the reason for her overeating to lose the weight. The last thing you should do is tell her that... (read in full...)

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