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Seven weeks pregnant-should I get an abortion?

Q.   hi, i am really looking for some advice. I am 21 years old a single parent of 1 little girl aged 21 months, I have recently found out that i am 7 weeks pregnant i have only been with my partner for 3 months and i dont think the relationship is going ...

A.   11 February 2008: the question you have to ask yourself is if you want to bring a child into this world knowing that the relationship isnt going to last? i was in the exact same position last week. i was what i thought 11 weeks pregnant with my boyfriend of 18 months ... (read in full...)

Its so out of character for him

Q.   Hi, I was with my boyfriend for about a year and we were constantly breaking up for a few weeks, few days etc and getting back together all the time keeping contact with each other and not seeing anyone else. I have broken up with him alot of time...

A.   11 February 2008: how can you blame him? you are the one who broke up with him, how can you expect him to stay faithful? if you told him that it was stupid for you to take him back, then y would you expect him to want to come back? i think you need to look at ... (read in full...)

I made my bed now I have to sleep on it

Q.   I broke up with my boyfriend. We'd been having issues for almost a year. However, I love him with all my heart and didn't wanna leave him but he left me no choice. Actually, we've broken up a lot of times, and usually came back together after a...

A.   11 February 2008: just take each day one at a time. it gets to overwhelming to think of forever without him. just know that today is better than yesterday and tomorrow will be better than today. try giving advice to other people about your experience. im dealing with ... (read in full...)

Should I just hope for the best or move on

Q.   My x boyfriend and i dated eachother for 4 years and we have a child together. When i broke up with him it was just to scare him into shape you knowhelp around the house work more and pay more attention to me. Well since than wehave been on and off. ...

A.   11 February 2008: honestly, if your using the whole "breaking up to make guilt" situation then you took the chance. men are very straight forward. If you break up with them, chances are that they are going to let their pride take over. Breaking up should never be ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend of 4 yrs is now ignoring me. Has he lost interest?

Q.   I have a really bad problem. For no reason whatsoever, my boyfriend of nearly 4 years has decided to just ignore me. He's ignoring my texts and calls, when he says he will see me he backs out last minute. I know it isn't cheating, he just isnt that ...

A.   11 February 2008: im going through the same thing. my boyfriend was always so affectionate to me, now it he hardly looks at me. he still texts me and talks to me on the phone, but when we are in person its like i dont even exsist. i'm trying to be strong and justgive ... (read in full...)

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