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... Send *utumnsand a private message | | | *utumnsand's profile:Hello. I am a 28 year old female and a Christian.
I love animals, reading, puzzle books, cross-stitching, going for walks, writing and music.
I struggle with anxiety and a low mood at times. I also have physical disabilities including chronic pain, fibromyalgia, and a mobility problem.
I consider myself quite a gentle person, but I will always be honest and give honest answers and advice, even if it isn't what I think you want to hear.
I really just hope that I am able to help people on this site and make a positive difference.
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Feeling insecure. Do I take notice of what my brother said? Or do I ask the guy I'm dating about what my brother said?
Q. Hi everyone, im not even sure where to start. But ive been dating a guy for 5 weeks, he's really lovely no problems really. He's my boss so it's a little complicated there but we've kept it out of work. I can separate these things pretty well i...
A. 29 August 2015: Hello. I can understand your worries, and I'm sorry your brother made such insensitive comments. I would advise speaking to your brother and asking him why he said what he said. What makes him say this guy will dump you soon? Does he have any evid... (read in full...)
Strained relationship with my fiance's sister. I want a better relationship with his family. What should I do?
Q. Well where do I begin. I am 23. I have been with my fiancée 4 years and engaged for 3 years. Since from the very beginning I have had a lot trouble from his side of the family, especially from his older sister. We have never really seen eye ...
A. 28 August 2015: Hello. I can understand you wanting a good relationship with your partner's family. But remember, you are engaged to HIM, and not his family. So your relationship with him is what comes first. It sounds as though things with your finance's sister... (read in full...)
I'm dating a man who is depressed. Its making me feel vulnerable. How do I not let it get to me?
Q. Hi everyone, I have been with someone for 6 months and I absolutely adore him. We fell in love and everything was effortless and happy. Since the beginning of the relationship I had the feeling he was maybe a bit depressed but now that he has had ...
A. 28 August 2015: Hello. I have been depressed in the past, and it is an awful thing to live with. However, it is also hard for those around the depressed person to deal with. You are right in saying that you cannot change things for him. Only he can do that. So ... (read in full...)
Should I trust my G/f and continue with our relationship or make both of our lives easier and just break it off now?
Q. I'd like to ask for some opinions, any opinions at all, from an outside point of view. I just can't think straight without determining whether I'm too emotional or just plain paranoid at this point. I'm 24, and have been with my girlfriend (same...
A. 27 August 2015: Hello. I can understand that you would be finding it hard to trust your girlfriend right now. You are right, it isn't really a good start to things, to lie about something like this. I can also understand your thoughts and worries, about w... (read in full...)
Life is like a box of chocolates
Q. Today I’m feeling pretty shit, so I can either sit there and sulk or either do something about it. So I chose to do something about it. If I can’t make myself happy, I can try and at least put a smile on those that read this post. :D “Life is...
A. 27 August 2015: Hello. I really like this article you have written, and how you have compared life to a box of chocolates. It is certainly true that if you get a box of chocolates, you won't necessarily know which ones you will like until you try them. Some you m... (read in full...)
I just want to get over the crush I have on my friend! Does my dream mean the crush is over?
Q. I have a crush on a friend. He is not a best friend, more of an acquaintance. He is straight and has a girlfriend, so I try to suppress these feelings. I am writing this because I used to have vivid dreams where we fool around. There are some dreams ...
A. 27 August 2015: We tend to dream about things and people which are on our minds a lot. It sounds like this guy is on your mind quite a bit, hence the regular dreams involving him. I do think our dreams can reflect how we feel about things. But at the same time, I... (read in full...)
I'm a university student with feelings for a staff member but I don't know if there's anything there or not?
Q. I'm a mature student and i have feelings for a member of staff at my uni. theyre not directly my teacher but i dont know if theres anything there. We message for hours on end when we're talking, but there are periods when we dont talk at all. He...
A. 27 August 2015: It is difficult to know exactly what someone's motives are or how they feel. But from what you have said, I don't think he sounds very interested. If he was, he wouldn't go for long periods without contacting you, and then contact you quite at ... (read in full...)
Why does he walk out without listen to my explanation?
Q. I always wondering why my boyfriend walk out when we're having an arguement.Most of the time he will leave me when i accidently say something that i shouldnt say it at first but it was only a joke, and also sometimes he leave me when he got jealous. ...
A. 27 August 2015: There could be several reasons why he walks out when you are having an argument. Perhaps he doesn't like that sort of confrontation. Or he may need to get some space to calm down and gather his thoughts. I think that taking a break during an ... (read in full...)
Can men and women just be friends? Or does he want more even though he has a GF?
Q. Hi, So...I've been at a new job for a year now and my manager wasn't around for the first half, he was travelling but ever since he returned we're constantly teasing each other, going out of our way to wind the other up and I was just taking as f...
A. 27 August 2015: I think men can enjoy teasing and joking around with women, without necessarily wanting anything more. But both men and women can want more with someone regardless of whether they already have a partner. You say he now has a girlfriend, and ... (read in full...)
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