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*prils's profile: I have a serious problem-question, please any mean or rude comments will be reported and removed. I am here for very needed good honest help and information with my marriage problem. My husband is a good man we get along very good until it gets to one things, the problem is it is the main thing in most marriages that keep it sparking and together, and yes i feel that way to, but,yes i say but because my husband doesn't seem to think iit matters in a marriage. At first of course when we were marryed he would always make a comment I remember to this day 13 years later, if you stop putting out I will get out and he meant it. Well I never gave it a thought since we were doing good in the bedroom then, now 13 years later, and we are not old now,late 40's,that's not old in my mind and feelings. The problem is he has excuse after excuse why he can't be with me, I took him to a few counselors , things seemed to be good once or twice, then he would slip back, but what i mean by slip back is he would stop, just stop wanting to be with me, he wouldn't say it, actually you can't get a word out of him, but defense. Now I guess I was dumb, but the counselor enven asked him about masterbating and he said no, I figured he would every once in a while, but now after 3 years of this back and fourth arguing over the whatever problem, he swore he choses me over the masterbation he has finally admitted to doing way to much and not being with me at all. Well on the last counselor he asked him to put his wife first for a while and slack off on the masterbation, he made a solumn promise to me on our marriage that he would stop until we are together because the counselor said apparently it has taken over the choice of his wife. Well that was 29 days ago, the promise was for 25th for or by christmas, I caught him last night, I was asllep when he got home at 11 at night, I meant to stay awake, well i did wake up later, to see him with just underware on in bed which is a big change for him a never thing for him, I though wow he is going to be with me finally, well to no afail he said he was tired and turned, well i looked at the clock he had been up from 11 until 2am doing something, and I know that something, I caught him right beside me he just didn;t know I woke up, after he got up went in the bathroom and change underware, and came back to bed that's when he said he was tired. I feel uhmiluated,unloved and he did it with his back turned in the same bed with me, but refuses me, he says he has a problem and needs pills, well what happend last night he didn't buy any pills for,I am devastigated,sick to my stomach, I did confront him, i didn't put him on the spot i just asked him if he did anything while i was asleep, he got very mad and defensive, I knew then I have lost him, I then said to him it is ok to do that like the counselor said, but you don't do that for years, and say you love your wife and ignore her. Now this is my lonley story, my husband is addicted, he will not give it up i know now after ast night, if he would go to the ends of the earth and scream and deney it, even though i said it was ok as long as he would be with me sometimes, still nothing.I think I should file for separation,I am just to sad all the time, I know know he has a big problem lying and the sex thing.No man will chose that over me, I even told him it is normal only if he would be with me sometimes comon now what do i say to this lying man, he looked me straight in the eye and swore to god, that's wrong,I am at the end of me robe. any KIND SUGEESTIONS OR THOUGHTS APPRECIATED. I am being ignored by my husband totally, I have been very good to him, counselors and counselors still and no love. We are into the new year almost and I know it will be terrible.And no love from him.

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