What's the best way to get over someone?
Q. What's the best way to get over the ending of a long term relationship? I broke up with her almost two months ago and I'm still finding the grief hard to cope with. I think about her an awful lot still and at times I'm still very upset and anxious ...
A. 13 July 2015: You are quite correct sir, time is the answer here. I find it's most effective when I don't hear from her, a single text can set me back days. I'm a keen cyclist as it happens, and I've set myself a target of becoming very fit. The endorphins help, ... (read in full...)
What's the best way to get over someone?
Q. What's the best way to get over the ending of a long term relationship? I broke up with her almost two months ago and I'm still finding the grief hard to cope with. I think about her an awful lot still and at times I'm still very upset and anxious ...
A. 12 July 2015: Thanks again, sorry to hear your relationship ended in such a painful way, it's all the harder I guess when someone you're actually with is unfaithful. I don't think that ever happened to me as she was a very decent and trustworthy person but it h... (read in full...)
What's the best way to get over someone?
Q. What's the best way to get over the ending of a long term relationship? I broke up with her almost two months ago and I'm still finding the grief hard to cope with. I think about her an awful lot still and at times I'm still very upset and anxious ...
A. 9 July 2015: Thanks for taking the time to reply to my post. Breakups are truly horrid aren't they? I guess they always happen for a valid reason though - as I don't believe anyone would even think about breaking up unless something was badly wrong. Figures ... (read in full...)
Am I terrible for thinking about other men?
Q. Hi guys I am a happily married 31 year old woman, i have been with my husband for 10 years and feel like our relationship couldnt get any stronger. However, i spend more and more time fantastizing about other men, about the romance, about t...
A. 8 July 2015: I broke up with my girlfriend of four years recently and experienced similar feelings and fantasies about other women. Looking back now I can now see that I was doing this because things weren't right and I wasn't getting what I needed from the ... (read in full...)
When will I finally get over the breakup?
Q. So, you have been recently dumped. You had to dump someone else. Maybe you're still in the "no contact" phase after the breakup. Months or years have passed. There is still an ache in your heart for that person. Sometimes it overtakes you ...
A. 7 July 2015: This article is a work of true wisdom. All of my adult life I have sought solace in the arms of another after all of my break-ups, maybe without even realising it. The human pain killer you speak of. I've never before taken the time or sought to ... (read in full...)
What is love? Can anyone help me define true lasting love? How do I recognise true love?
Q. What is love? Do you have to first experience it to know how to recognise it, to understand how it feels? It seems to me as if most couples just go through the motions, they don't actually have love nor really understand it. They get together...
A. 7 July 2015: I don't agree that love can be manufactured by simply selecting someone you like and 'working on things' until you're 'in love' so to speak. I think love is a very rare and totally inescapable feeling which can happen between two people. A ... (read in full...)
Why is my wife spending so much time sleeping, while meanwhile our sex life is non existent?
Q. My wife recently went away for a few days with friends. While she was away, we chatted on the phone everyday. However, for the past few months she's been sleeping all the time and she's also put on weight and she's still gaining. Her weight doesn't ...
A. 6 July 2015: I'm very sorry to hear of your troubles. I've been in a similar situation myself for the past few years, although now the relationship has ended. She became less and less interested in making love as time went by. The only thing to do is talk to her ... (read in full...)
What is love? Can anyone help me define true lasting love? How do I recognise true love?
Q. What is love? Do you have to first experience it to know how to recognise it, to understand how it feels? It seems to me as if most couples just go through the motions, they don't actually have love nor really understand it. They get together...
A. 6 July 2015: Thank you to everyone who replied, I feel very honoured to have such thoughtful and considered answers. For me I feel that there has to be a clear and obvious distinction between an average run of the mill relationship and true love. Make no ... (read in full...)
We parted amicably, but now I'm suffering rebound agony. What can I do?
Q. Help! I've recently split from my partner of four long years of what began as a wonderful relationship yet ended with the two of us bored and wanting out. We parted as amicably as we could, yes there were tears and pain but nothing out of the ...
A. 5 July 2015: Thank you to all whom have helped me over this. I cannot understate the improvement it has had on my current state of mind and general demeanour. Sometimes the seemingly obvious needs pointing out and underlining by someone outside of one's own ... (read in full...)
We parted amicably, but now I'm suffering rebound agony. What can I do?
Q. Help! I've recently split from my partner of four long years of what began as a wonderful relationship yet ended with the two of us bored and wanting out. We parted as amicably as we could, yes there were tears and pain but nothing out of the ...
A. 5 July 2015: WiseOwlE, that is perhaps the most helpful and considered reply I could have ever hoped for. It's also a huge kick up the butt and makes me feel quite pathetic, which I now realise I have been. THANK YOU! Some of it makes for quite sobering reading, ... (read in full...)
We parted amicably, but now I'm suffering rebound agony. What can I do?
Q. Help! I've recently split from my partner of four long years of what began as a wonderful relationship yet ended with the two of us bored and wanting out. We parted as amicably as we could, yes there were tears and pain but nothing out of the ...
A. 4 July 2015: Thanks for your reply. It's good to have another person's view. I think you're quite right in what you say, although I'm still not sure that getting back with her is the right thing to do, even if she wanted that. I did ask her directly yesterday ... (read in full...)
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