A bad relatioship destroyed my confidence to initiate sex. How can I over come my fear?
Q. I would like to be able to masterbate in front of my husband, but even after reading all the encouraging comments about it I am still quite nervouse about it. Heck, I cant even ask him for sex when I am in the mood. I'm just not sexually aggressive ...
A. 7 February 2010: I am really sorry to hear that things with your ex left you feelings so unsure about yourself. It sounds like it was more his issues than anything to do with your 'aggressive' behaviour. In fact, from your email, I imagine you refer to your ... (read in full...)
We've been friends for 5 years, he's everything I would want in a guy, but will it work?
Q. I have been friends with a guy for about 5 years, we don't see each other all the time, probably once or twice a month, but he's almost always the one I call when I get in trouble or need someone to talk to etc. It's quite clear he would like mo...
A. 6 February 2010: It is so impossible these days to find a person who you feel comfortable with... who you can call to share a laugh or share a tear.
Now, if you have that person AND also have an attraction to them (even if it's not a huge spark) then you have som... (read in full...)
Should I just let sleeping dogs lie?
Q. I was molested as a child by my brothers but even though I was the youngest, we were only one and two years apart. I remember things from when I was 5 up until I left home at 15. I never spoke to them after that and have a lot of anxiety when it ...
A. 7 December 2009: I think that seeking support from a counsellor/psychologist is the most likely path towards healing.... to perhaps having that day without tears that your heart and soul so very much deserves.
All the very best of luck. ... (read in full...)
Should I hold on, when my heart and mind say "let him go"
Q. Thanks in advance for any help you may be offer on this. As is often the case, there is a depth to this story I can't write here solely for the reason that it will take up 100 pages! However, in a nutshell: I have been in a relationship for ...
A. 4 December 2009: Hi there and thanks to both of you - gosh, such two very great, yet different responses. One suggesting I hold on, one perhaps I let go. I know that at the end of it all, the decision can only be my own. Thank you though for taking the time to share ... (read in full...)
Was he only after one thing?
Q. Was he just after one thing? I was seeing this guy for two weeks. First date went really well as did the second. On the third date we planned to go to the movies (my suggestion) but when he picked me up he was saying that he’d rather order tak...
A. 19 May 2009: Hi,
I'm sorry to hear about your experience with this guy. However, in reaidng your story (and not even knowing you!) I felt so very proud of you! Good on you for keeping to what YOU feel comfortable with and not giving in to his demands.... (read in full...)
Just curious about pet names :-)
Q. This isn't serious. Its a serious question but like, not something I'm worried about. Just something I'm curious about. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months now. We got together the same day we met and since day one, he calls me ...
A. 7 April 2009: I completely agree with niki20! I think it's great that he calls you beautiful and gorgeous - thus distinguishing you from being "just another girl". My b/friend uses the same for me and so, when he does say I;m looking sexy or hot, those words then ... (read in full...)
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