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I've never followed 'the rules' of 'womanly' behaviour is this wrong?

Q.   The rules book stated that a girl should be reserved, not too chatty, not trying at all to entertain actually but thats a personality trait of mine, i LOVE TO ENTERTAIN, i make ppl laugh, im extremely bubbly and sometimes too hyper. I enjoy being ...

A.   26 June 2010: Whaaat theeee heeeell are you talking about? Haha... Rules? Never heard we had to obey some rules to be "credible" as women. I think the point here is that you like being different, so you made up some stereotype in your head that contradi... (read in full...)

My husband thinks I cheat; why don't I just do it?

Q.   I´ve been married for nine years but together for 16. Since the beginning of our marriage, and because of our personalities we´ve fought often but have remained together (this mostly because before we got married I cheated on him once, and he found...

A.   5 June 2010: You cheat on your husband and say that he is the one hurting you? He is obviously STILL hurt that you have betrayed him and needs reassurance constantly, because you made him so insecure. And now, that he clearly shows signs of worrying and thinks ... (read in full...)

G/f very ill and I have lost my attraction to her

Q.   Ok, so here it is...my girlfriend (21) and I (24) have been dating for 4 years now, most of it a long-distance relationship until we moved in together. She suffers from severe ulcerative colitis, and she's had episodes every year we've been together...

A.   28 May 2010: No, you are not being selfish. The fact that you are concerned that this is the way you feel indicates that this is not a matter of selfishness. You see, if you weren't altruistic, you would simply leave without questioning if you are a bad person ... (read in full...)

To cheat or not to cheat? Can mongamy really exist?

Q.   Monogamy - can it REALLY exist - or is it natural to struggle with this? I'm asking this question because it seems like everyone cheats. On a marriage, in a relationship, etc. And if they don't it's usually because they "don't want to hurt" th...

A.   29 October 2009: Hm... My relationship is not perfect (in fact I do have a lot of problems at the moment), however, I have not been attracted to any other man. Ever. Used to work in a restaurant where I was the only female, and the guys used to openly admire other ... (read in full...)

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