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Criteria to be in love with someone
Q. What are good criteria to be in love with someone? Is it enough that this person is intelligent, and cares about things that are substantial? Is it enough that you have things in common with this person? What do you think?...
A. 23 December 2008: There is no criteria required for you to be in love with someone. Love is more about how you feel about a person. A person may be intelligent and cares about things that are substantial, but that doesn't mean you have to be in love with them. When ... (read in full...)
I found the perfect girl but will I be missing out?
Q. Hello, i have met the perfect girl and i want to spend the rest of my life with her... but... im so shure that we will be together forever im afraid i will lose the chance of being with other women. Its not that i want to cheat or anything and trus...
A. 23 December 2008: Why do you want the chance to be with other women? Is it because your other friends will have been with other girls? You talked about stone marbles and compared them to relationships. Relationships are not like collections. With a collection, the ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to not like Christmas?
Q. I am a Catholic but I do not like Christmas. Christmas for me is way too stressful. I hate shopping espeically during the holidays but I still have to buy presents for people. Parking, the crowds and everthing else. Than there is the cooking o...
A. 23 December 2008: No it's definitely not wrong for you to hate Christmas. In fact, there are many people who hate Christmas too. You're definitely not alone there! Try doing a simple search on Google with the words 'hate' and 'Christmas' and you'll be bombarded with ... (read in full...)
Do I need to see a shrink?
Q. Two problems really; one is rather embarrassing and shamefull, and I am sure that people will think I am a freak after reading the other one..... Problem 1: I am aged 29, and still a virgin. You heard that correctly! I have never had any girlfrie...
A. 23 December 2008: I don't think you're a freak at all. I think you just haven't found the right girl. I know that's said so often that it's become a cliche, but I really think it's relevant. There's nothing wrong with not wanting to become intimate with someone you ... (read in full...)
Should I let her go even though I love her?
Q. When you love a girl and you think she likes you (Or thats what the signals seem to be when im with her). She speaks to you in person but not via phone, email or SMS and when you see her in person it's only with her friends. I really love her and ...
A. 22 December 2008: You haven't really gone into detail about why you love this girl and what you love about her. Do you think it's possible that you might be a little more thrilled by the chase than the girl herself?
If I am mistaken then I apologise. If you real... (read in full...)
How can I get my mind right and not mess this up? He's the most handsome, charismatic man!
Q. I just started dating, I believe, the most handsome, charismatic and fun loving guy I've ever met. I think he's wonderful and he says the same thing about myself also. Up until very recently upon realizing what may actually come of us (which is the ...
A. 22 December 2008: It sounds like you need to relax. Try not to think so much. Let your instincts guide you for a while. Trust me, once you relax it'll feel amazing. Just believe in yourself.
Also, try not to focus so much on how handsome, charismatic and fun lovi... (read in full...)
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